she split from the guy because he kept putting her at the bottom of the pile, they have struck up the relationship again and he as promised her that he will leave his wife and child when the child is 12 and moved school, his he playing games with her.
2006-08-09 08:51:09 · 34 answers · asked by Steve 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He's only playing his exciting games ,and he's testing his experiment or he's enjoying his extra sex life , men never left their wife unless he caught her sleep with the other guy or she catch him red-handed and kick him out or she is much younger,more beautiful,more money and power.Otherwise,he's still keep on lying to your ex and cheating on his wife and hiding from his kids.
Tell her to choose her own way,stay for no future until she's old and ugly or leave him and wait for another man who's really love her .
2006-08-17 04:17:18 · answer #1 · answered by canada2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy with a wife and a kid, you bet he is playing games with her. He most probably wants the best of both worlds. Why does he have to wait till his child is 12? If he loves someone else that he should do the decent thing and tell his wife. He is not only cheating on his wife, but in a weird way, he is also cheating on your friend. Tell her to open her eyes and to look at the way things really are. Either he tells his wife now or he does not, what wait.
2006-08-17 02:21:42 · answer #2 · answered by aew2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This really shouldn't be a question of him playing games with her. This is about her being a homewrecking whore. A married man is defined as someone else's DAMN HUSBAND! Forget her, what about this man's wife and kid? She wasn't being kept at the bottom of the pile, she was the bottom of the pile from day one. She deserves whatever she gets.
2006-08-17 07:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, If he is not leaving the wife now whose to say he will when the child turn 12. That's a man and his family!!
2006-08-17 08:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course he is playing games with her. if she is too stupid to realize that, then there is no sense worrying about it because she is where she wants to be.
just how old is his child now? what is she going to do when his promises dont pan out and she is left out in the cold again? are you supposed to be there to pick up the pieces?
no married man is worth all that because no matter what, even if he did leave the wife, its going to be the girlfriend who is to blame for being a homewrecker. his wife is going to make sure of that.
its the age old problem. married man, other woman. the only one that is going to make changes is going to have to be her. and she is going to have to make that decision on her own.
why are you so worried about it by the way? are you still in love with her?
2006-08-16 01:39:25 · answer #5 · answered by lodeemae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A cheat is a cheat is a cheat: This guy obviously gets bored easy: So what happens when he gets bored with your friend: He'll simply move on to his next conquest: And for the point of this guy saying he'll move when the kid is 12: What kind of father is that anyway: He is always going to be lying to his family, so what chance does your frind have to get any kind of honesty out of him?
2006-08-16 21:33:13 · answer #6 · answered by BabyFaced Luvbug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing games with her and she is letting him do it! She is an adult and capable of learning from her own mistakes. it is such a familiar picture - happened to my ex wife too, he turned out to be a violent little s**t.
Anyway, if there are no children involved it is completely and utterly up to her what she does and she has to take the consequences.
Have you fully let her go yet?
2006-08-15 05:44:22 · answer #7 · answered by Bymble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he is playing games her. she needs to remember why she split up with him the first place, all so why is he waiting until the child is 12 there is never a good time to leave when chidren are in involved.
2006-08-15 06:09:32 · answer #8 · answered by pixi_kitten2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definely playing games but u dnt know the details only the general outline so it could always be deeper than expected most probably not all that u can do is be a friend and be there in case she falls back to reality too hard.
2006-08-09 09:00:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bottom line.... he is getting the best of both worlds.... and he is playing his wife and your friend..... he ain't being honest... and to use the child as an excuse.... he is having his cake and eating it.... your friend should dump him as he is playing her.... he is marriage so what commitment can he really make.... its all bulls**t... i wish you well but your friend has to make this decision herself all you can do is be there to pick up the pieces
2006-08-15 21:24:29 · answer #10 · answered by Carlette D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋