plase i need some one that can give me help?

Question

i really need help and someone to comfort me i am 16 and soon haveing a baby

Answer 1

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The next business will need you meeting people, I guess. You can check this one up on www.flpireland.com If this sounds like something you would be interested in the best thing you can do is e-mail me at frankwoodsflp@eircom and I will get you signed into the business. This is a fantastic business consisting of a hugh range of health products that will help a lot of people you know. remember only by helping others will you become very happy and comfortable in your own life, and very rich at the same time. Please do keep in touch as I really want to help you. Do not be allarmed as this is what I do every day, all the time, and I enjoy it very much. Good luck with your baby, and be happy.

Answer 2

Although I'm sure there will be several people who will raise their hands on here to help you with the akward questions, you'll definitely need some folks who are a little closer. It's always good to have at least a couple of friends who you can hug, whose shoulders you can cry on, and who will help you carry your stuff when you're 8 months pregnant. Parents are certainly a first choice, since they'll (hopefully) be in this child's life for the rest of their lives. Although it'd be nice to say the father should be a good choice, but it sounds like he's out of the picture (friggin' stupid guys!). But if all else fails, you definitely need to start getting your friends involved. Sometimes, you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel until you have a friend to show it to you...

Answer 3

One thing is to just love your baby as much as you can if you plan on keeping it. Stay in school. There are alternitive schools that have day cares in them so you can take your baby to school with you. The alternitive school my step-son went to had one and I think he said that the moms had to have at least 1 day a week working in the day care or 1 class a day. I can't remember which. There are ways to get your education while raising a baby. It might not be easy, but nothing worth having is ever easy. I have known several girls that got pregnant young and they struggled. Some dropped out of school and have no or low-paying jobs. Some have finished school and have great jobs. It is up to you to do what is best for you and your baby. Also, even if the father claims that he does not want to be involved (i'm not saying your baby's father is like that) it does not let them off the hook for child support. It is not his choice. Most states will automatically garnish the father's wages out of their paychecks to cut down on the ammount of dead beats.

Answer 4

ok, so I read and answered your other post. You first need to tell your parents, or an adult you trust and maybe they can help you tell your parents. But your parents need to hear the news from YOU!! I know you are scared that they will be angry with you and they may be, but the sooner you tell them, the longer they have to get used to the idea. You will need a lot of support during and after your pregnancy. What's done is done and you can't change it now, your life will be forever changed, but it won't be ruined either. You may be eligible for WIC http://www.fns.usda.gov/wic/
They help out during pregnancy with food and after pregnancy with breast pumps and formula in addition to food. Pray over the situation and keep your head up. You will make it through this. Good luck. You can email me at: [e-mail]

Answer 5

i would suggest that you talk to your parents about the comfort and support you need, being pregnant is not something you should go about alone. It would also be helpful if you tried talking to your close friends or the father of the child. Remember being pregnant is a blessing not a burden!!

Answer 6

If you have no family or close friends to turn to for support, then you need to look for local resources to help you. Look in the phone book, do internet searches, ask your doctor for references, but find somewhere that deals with teenage pregnancies and/or young mothers. If you are keeping the baby, then you will need the help....you shouldn't go through it alone.

Answer 7

Dont worry your life isnt near over you made the right decision for you and I ll be praying for you Both of my sisters had babies while in high school and still have normal lives plus you have something extra to look forward to when you get home from school. Its not easy but its worth it, babies are precious. I dont have any but I cant wait to.

Answer 8

its going to be ok hun, u are doing just fine. just think u have this little baby inside of u that will be born soon, and u will have for the rest of ur life to rast and take care of.good luck

Answer 9

Hi Jessie

What kind of help are you loking for? Are you considering your options or have you already decided to keep the baby? if not, my husband and i are looking to adopt as we cannot have a baby of our own.....

Answer 10

In your last post you said you are about 3 weeks pregnant. Which is it? Soon to have the baby or just starting your pregnancy? You also asked for help in telling your parents you are pregnant.

The comfort you need is from your parents. You need to talk with them about this. Is it going to be hard, yes.

At 16 you are too young to be having sex, but you did, now you have to grow up. Having a baby isn't easy...why do you think they call it labor instead of party? For young girls it may even be harder because the medications they have are for adults and some doctors are reluctant to use it on teens, not knowing how it's going to effect them.

You have broken your parents trust so they are going to be upset with you for awhile. Give them time to get used to the situation. You've had a couple of weeks to give it some thought. I'm sure you were upset when you first found out too. They love you and will come around (most parents do). Just don't expect them to be jumping for joy about it.

With pregnancy and having a baby comes a lot of responsibility. You have a lot of decisions that you will have to make. You need to go to a doctor and start taking prenatal vitamins. The doc may have you come in more than older women because you will be considered a high risk (because of your age). You'll have to decide on if you're going to keep the baby or give it up for adoption too.

You will need to finish school and find out if your school will allow you to go to it while you're pregnant or are you going to have to change schools? After the baby is born and you go to school, you're going to have to figure out who is going to watch the baby while you're in school. What if your friends are going out someplace, who will watch the baby then or will you have to take it with you?

Be ready for your friends to treat you differently too. You're going through something very different from them and they may shy away from you. Once their parents find out you're pregnant, they may tell the girls to stay away from you too.

Where is the dad in this picture? Is he around? Does his parents know? They need to. He needs to support the baby, after all he had a part in this and should not be "off the hook" and leave you dealing with this all alone.

I wish you luck. I hope you don't have sex again for quite some time. No protection is 100% safe. You don't need to be dealing with the worries of if you're pregnant again or not. At this age you're supposed to be out with friends having fun going to movies, mini-golf, bowling, high school games, not sitting around crying and worrying if you're pregnant (and now sitting around crying with the baby crying with you!).

It's going to take some time for your parents to get over their disappointment in you. I'm sure they still love you, it's just disappointment. I know I've talked with my sons about this exact thing telling them that if it happened, I would still love them, but be very disappointed in them. I've talked with them enough about sex out of marriage and the consequences of it. It changes your life forever, but I also feel each baby deserves to be loved and be born, not aborted, so I do not want that even crossing their minds.

Best wishes.