Of course you are going to call me racist, but you are so wrong. I love people, period. The problem is that many of us have to settle for leftovers because a lot of Black men (not all), are on drugs, in jail, gay, or have been killed by other Black men. We need or men for ourselves. I have heard this from young, old, smart, beaurtiful, working and slim women so you can't say it is because of the women.
2006-08-09 08:31:14 · 29 answers · asked by Jacks036 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What makes you think you're the only woman of any race experiencing problems with love or dating or men? Seems pretty arrogant. Instead of casting blame, why not focus on helping your race with the very problems you yourself state exist? Maybe it is time a black woman spoke out on these issues with black men. Did your mother settle for a 'leftover' as you put it? Why or why not? Become a advocate, an answer. Not another woman whining about men - of any race. There are plenty of single black women getting pregnant at young ages. Why not speak to the black men they are, or are not, raising.
2006-08-09 08:51:33 · answer #1 · answered by bird on a wire 1 · 10⤊ 2⤋
The only thing I can tell u is it isn't the white women,the black guys are chosing them over the black women, its not their fault. I used to date a white man cause all the black guys where i lived chose whites women. So I just got over it. The white guy and I dated for about 2 years and we had a daughter together. Then again I was married to a black man and he treated me like ****,so being with a black man isnt always pretty. But I'm not judging all black men thats just how it goes at times. Hope I was a little helpful. email me we can talk more about it
2006-08-09 08:42:00 · answer #2 · answered by haleyb 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Instead of blaming white women why not work on having more good black men to choose from ?? Now the white race is going to get blamed for this too ?? Come on. Why is everything our fault ?? And god knows if some white women came on here and wrote in capital letters BLACK WOMEN, blah, blah, blah, every black women on here would have gone insane and called her a racist.
2006-08-09 08:55:37 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
That is slightly racist. Why don't YOU date white men? You are stereotyping saying that "a lot of Black men (not all), are on drugs, in jail, gay, or have been killed by other Black men"
2006-08-09 08:37:56 · answer #4 · answered by Christ, Jesus 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you shouldn't blame the white woman, Maybe you should put it on the black man because maybe he a good black man that has choosed to be with the white woman then lets ask him why? Maybe he is stereo typing the black woman as though they are all the same? Which is not true so get mad at the man. I don't think the woman is aiming to take them... It's not just a 1 sided thing.
2006-08-09 08:45:41 · answer #5 · answered by jennaonna2000 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
No problem. But what about the black women who date and/or marry white men?
2006-08-09 08:35:57 · answer #6 · answered by trebobnagrom 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
You're not looking hard enough.
This question embarrasses me.
If white women like black men so be it.You have no control over who others will fall in love with.Leave them be.
Finding a man is clearly your problem.Just because you feel bad doesn't mean everyone else has to.
Goodness woman! Show a little strength.
2006-08-09 10:09:17 · answer #7 · answered by Lycrester 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Well maybe your black men should leave white women alone, it's a two way street you know. All the black men I know prefer white girls. They say the love black girls but never date them so don't just blame the girls, guys have a choice too.
2006-08-09 08:44:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Its not us white peoples fault that your black men choose to be with us. Did it ever occur to you that they go to whoever they are attracted to and it just might not be a black woman? grow up. I mean come on, I have dated plenty of black guys that have said if a black woman was more into what he was into or he could relate to her, then he would date a black woman. Not our fault black men also find us more attractive.
2006-08-09 10:29:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Black women...stop limiting yourself to black men. White men can make excellent companions (very thoughtful..."flowers for absolutely no reason" type guys). Latinos...they can be great too. In my experience they can be very romantic (but jealous sometimes too). My point...not all black women are gonna end up with black men, but we should be okay with that. Because...it's really not about color in the first place. Be open to love...period.
2006-08-09 08:40:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 3⤋