I might be having doubts about my fiance. I love him so mcuh. I don't know if he is the one for me.
I am also thinking about women. I don't know why I am thinking about women. If i leave him for a woman I will reget it. If I cheat on him I will reget it.
My fiance and I have been together for 13 months. Him and I have been though a lot together. He has been there for me. I have been there for him.
He is a sweet, wonderful, kind, and caring man. He loves me with all of his heart. He loves me for me.
2006-08-09 08:31:04 · 8 answers · asked by tanyafreshour1981 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Girlfriend, I feel the same way EVERYDAY! I have been with my fiance for a long period of time as well, and believe you me I have the same doubts as to whether he is actually the one for me. Perhaps it has to do with the discrepencies that he has had in the past (where I have tried to forgive him for, but yet have not been able to forget). Like you and your fiance, my fiance and myself have been through alot too, all bad points aside he has been there for me when I have needed him, YOUR NOT ALONE
2006-08-09 08:39:12 · answer #1 · answered by Barbie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 months may seem like a long time but compared to a lifelong commitment it's a drop in the bucket. Know thyself first and foremost. Unbiased counseling may be of help to you to sort out the issues that are conflicting you. This attraction to other women may be a passing thing or the path you were born to. Take no shame in either. Understand and love yourself for who you are and the world will follow.
You may feel that hurting this man now will be hard on him. How much hurt will he suffer if this attraction is more than a passing thing and you get married.
2006-08-09 15:51:32 · answer #2 · answered by GJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he know U very well, U like women and I am sure he doesn't know that. If this man is good like U say and U r not for sure if he is right for U, Do him a favor and he will respect U later for it, Let him go. U can still be friends with him.
2006-08-09 15:43:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't already, you should look into premarital counseling. He sounds like he's really good for you from what you say, but you don't want to end up married and wanting out. Figure it out before the wedding.
2006-08-09 16:23:21 · answer #4 · answered by caitlinerika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you have a clue. I wouldn't get married if your having doubts. Especially regarding your sexuality.
2006-08-09 15:37:20 · answer #5 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your missing a life in general
2006-08-09 15:34:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better go with the flow and get it right.Ooh you you already has it right.
2006-08-09 15:36:58 · answer #7 · answered by daniellesmith1973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a threesome, your fiance, you ,and another woman
2006-08-09 15:38:26 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋