i havent been able to have an orgasm lately i dont why can some 1 plz help i almost there but then my body?

Question

gets really tired and stop its been happening 4 4 days now some1 pl help

i mean 4 days

Answer 1

Yeah baby, I can help you all night long.

Answer 2

Try consulting a psychologist (not psychiatrist at the moment). Look into your health also for any symptoms. You may also try some foreplay before the act. For a Christian, a foreplay is not neccessarily a caress on any parts of your body or a physical act that may lead to arousal but it may help. How about a clean house, clean sweet smell bedsheet and pillow, a clean and sweet smelling you, a warm smile, a no nagging conversations, an enjoyable dinner with partner, sweet nothings as you do it.

Answer 3

Physically relax whilst mentally letting things get really wild. I dunno what does it for a girl but I imagine like the concept of my wife and it consumes my mind. Not consumes, but rather it fills up my mind so as I can think of only her/that feeling. The more I imagine it as being everything that's in my mind the easier it is to come.

Also, imagine coming; imagine it as if it were actually happening; that does it for me too. I know women are very similar, and here's one for you; you know the way a woman comes deep inside her belly, right inside herself? Well a man comes in virtually an identical way; his orgasm radiates out from his belly in almost the same way. I talked with my wife about this and had an exploration into where her clit ended up and it ends up in the same place a man's penis root ends up: deep inside our bellies.

We're not very different men and women.

Answer 4

Yes I have experienced this myself. I think sometimes we think about it ahead of time & want to have one so bad before we even start foreplay, almost like its planned. We get so anxious that it frustrates us, then we just give up. Our minds are not totally clear we are not really enjoying the moment. WE ARE TRYING TO HARD, have a little wine to relax you, it will clear your mind. I think you should skip even trying for a week, then you will be genuinely horny and with that glass of wine it will be a super-dooper orgasm!!!!!!!

Answer 5

wow, that one who doesnt know what an orgasm is, si prolly really young. anyway, i have trouble having them as well, havent had one in about 1 1/2 months. 4 days? count ur blessings

Answer 6

Try burning musk insence for a few hour before hand, its suposed to get ya in the mood.
Maybe dont concerntrate on in as much while ur goin for it, I run outa steam when I think about it too much

Answer 7

I have never heard that one before,

but you could always go to the doctor and ask why your body is getting tired.

If you dont feel comfortable about talking about it, then dont mention it.

just ask why your body is always getting tired all the time.

hopfully you'll get an answer.

Answer 8

to start with leave your problems of life outside the bedroom, a good orgasm starts in the head, find someone you are comfortable with and have them perform oral on you, alot of woman can't orgasm during intercourse, make sure you communicate what you like when it's happening, watch him do it, ask him to stop and kiss you when he's doing it (erotic!!!)
Is anyone else turned on .....)

Answer 9

ORGASMS FOR WOMEN to maintain and achieve takes time really they do and you must just get to know your body is all!
hay i recommend working on coming all the time first then move up to orgasms trust me -alright -OK!

Answer 10

Perhaps you need to check more into why you are getting so tired.. Anemic? Any other symptoms which are evident at any other time? Any undue pressures in the home?

Answer 11

Stop thinking so much, sit back... relax... and really concentrate on what is happening.

Find a good partner