2006-08-09 08:05:35 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I met mine when i was a teen..She has made my life miserable since then.I moved away leaving her no forwarding addy and have no intention of ever seeing her again...
2006-08-16 07:57:05 · answer #1 · answered by annie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes although im not sure she's still alive,my mother gave me up for adoption 55 years ago , i have just started to look for her i already know i have an half sister called iris she is a year older than me and was adopted just befor i was born dont get me wrong my adoptive mother was and still is wonderfull she is now 93,my birth mother was 19 when she had me, so now she would be 70, i know she had at least two sisters and a brother, i will find out more one day soon.
2006-08-13 12:15:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It has been a bone of contention for many years and finally i have realised she didnt want us and i am a better mum than she was and have put that ghost to rest. But that isnt the story for every one some people find thier birth mothers and long lost fathers and have happier endings i wish you well.
2006-08-09 18:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by dreamyuk67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. She drifted in and out of my life bringing chaos and lack of self confidence. My grandmother raised me and I am forever grateful to her.
BUT my stepsister was adopted at birth and both her and my stepmum searched for each other and have a much better relationship with each other than I do with a mother that I lived with on and off for 15 years.
Each individual relationship has its own merits - and its own pitfalls. If you are prepared for the worst anything else is a blessing.
Good luck x x
2006-08-09 15:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I know mine but there are many times when knowing her is harder than if I didn't. I'm the oldest of 5 and she gave us all up except the youngest. If your looking for you birth-mom, please be careful she might be a wonderful person but then again she could be a leach like mine.
2006-08-17 09:33:19 · answer #5 · answered by ddsnmry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I spent many years of my life with her, but know her...other thing.
Only when I became an adult I could appreciate her good and bad side, then I felt resentful for the way she used me so many times, at the end - I am so happy for that - I could accept her just the way she is and stay away her influence...as soon as I realize
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2006-08-17 08:37:40 · answer #6 · answered by Expat Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do and have for 34 years
2006-08-16 17:22:36 · answer #7 · answered by fetter_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! i do know her, wish that when she walked out on me and my brother when i was 4 that she would of stayed away.she has cause more grief than good.she put a man b4 us and that's wrong.then parnces back into our life years later.now she's old lonely and hates to see anyone happy cause what she did.now my bro and i BOTH have issues THANKS MOM>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
2006-08-16 16:04:36 · answer #8 · answered by 2good4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was adopted and traced my birth mother.curiosity played a major part
2006-08-14 12:36:58 · answer #9 · answered by dave s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know my biological father, never have, and choose not too, if i wanted to i could, but my lifes fine, i have a great dad, theres no need for him at all, dont see him as anything to do with me, im not bitter in anyway, as he didnt want to know, i just dont want to know, never have, and dont intend on doing
2006-08-14 20:11:05 · answer #10 · answered by roundtree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋