well im 4teen and my b friend is 5teen bout 2 b 6teen and i wont b 5teen until jan 14 he tells me he been in bad relationships -n- he said when he first met me he new i waz different he asked everyone who i waz and everything well anyway after talkin on the fone 3 times we were readin each other minds and we told each other we luv 1 another we met each other family we made luv not that hardcore stuff but yea and he went down on me i waz a virgin b 4 i met him he call me everyday he see me about everyday he do anything i tell him when we do wat we do he counts how many times i cume and he just look at me he write songs bout me he cried when i waz bout 2 break up with him and he is not a punk he did everything a kid do now in the hood and he said he would put his life on the line 4 me and he fight all the time he wanna marry me i am the only one he think bout u can tell he is really in luv and when he do this he get on my nerve i treat him wrong sometime i jus want 2 break up sometimes
2006-08-09 07:59:35 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well i have 2 say one more thing my mother already no im on the pills we been together 4 almost a year i make straight A's and probably 1 or 2 B's and he make staight A's when I grow up i wanna be a director he want 2 b a detective we want five kids in the middle of our career and i do understand what some of u all r sayin
2006-08-09 08:55:43 · update #1
It sounds like he really cares about you, dont take that for an advantage! Just ask yourself what life would be without him. And i think that you really do love him but you just dont realize it yet and your love for him isn't as strong as his love is for you. I'm not sure about this but maybe your just bored of your relationship, i dont know. I started goin out wit my boyfriend when i was 14 and he was 16...he treats me almost the same as your boyfriend treats you. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me we have now been goin out for almost 2 years!
2006-08-14 16:31:02 · answer #1 · answered by HUNNiiE DiiP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I was in "love" at your age with a boy who sounded very much like your boyfriend and we did a lot of the same things you are doing. It is now 14 years later (I'm 28) and I'll tell you what I've learned. You will be in love at least several times in your life with different guys. You will think it's the real thing and wonder if you will marry them... But there's something all young girls need to know, real love, the kind that lasts forever, is not just a feeling. It's about sharing, respect, caring, knowledge, self worth. You have so much to learn. For yourself and for this boy you should distance yourself from him. Enjoy the years that you have ahead of you to experience life and love. You need to finish growing up so that you can decide what you really want out of your life. Don't waste your youth, enjoy it. Beleive me, teenage boys' emotions don't last. If you broke up with him, in about a month or two he'd be singing to someother girl and crying over her and saying he couldn't live without her.
2006-08-09 08:40:29 · answer #2 · answered by kayla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur writing like dis den u pwabwe need 2 keep taking dose birf control pills 2 save urself frum giving birth 2 early. s-p-e-l-l c-h-e-c-k and grammar, girl. You're clearly too smart and serious inside to write that way.
Guess it depends what country/culture you're from if it's really love or not. Kinda sounds like it, actually, even though you're so young. Keep your family involved, and his too. Have lots of interests and activities that will boost your community recognition and maybe get you a scholarship.
Focus on school. I've seen some people go from age fourteen on up to college together and then get married. They're happy together. Good luck!
2006-08-16 13:58:12 · answer #3 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very possible to be in love at 14. My husband and I started dating at 14 and we married at 19. He passed away almost 4 years ago, but he was the love of my life. I'm not saying you're in love with your boyfriend, but it's very possible. Maybe you should take a step back from the relationship, so you can see what you want.
2006-08-15 07:26:54 · answer #4 · answered by heather C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl if diz iz ur first love, then itz gonna be dat way for a while until u guyz been together for a few years. Cuz me im da same age as you and im with sum1 dat iz 17 (gunna be 18) and he do all dat stuff dat ur man does, but through it all i think u luv him. Cuz my relatinship wit my man was like dat wen we 1st started going out. But we manged to get through it all. so gurl wen u feel like u wann break up wit him juz go sumwhere by urself and calm down. okay l8a
2006-08-15 11:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by Mz. Kriminal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand where you are coming from. my best friend and (hetro) started dating when we were 13 - but we had been best friends since we were 8. we are 18 now and are getting married next november (1 month after we both turn 19), and we are so happy and love each other so much. when we got together, we said we loved each other - and meant it. dont let anyone tell you that you are too young to love. its a LIE. best wishes to the both of you
2006-08-09 14:39:06 · answer #6 · answered by Cherished_Bride 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to answer your question, no i dont think that you love him. i think a lot of what the other responses have said is true. if you have to ask, then you dont love him. didnt you say that you wantd to break up with him? if you loved him why would you do that? although i dont think age is a requirement to love i do KNOW that you cant fall in love after talking on the phone 3 times. that's infatuation. and it would be a huge mistake to confuse the two. you will be miserable for the rest of your life if you thought that was love. you are too young to say he is it. you need to stop focusing on this boyfriend of yours and maybe focus on school. theres not one punctuation in that entire paragraph of yours. good luck
2006-08-09 08:18:49 · answer #7 · answered by lalie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, umm, I am sure you dont want to hear this but girl, you are way too young to be talking to this guy about love and marriage and way too young for sex. You could end up pregnant. Yes, it can happen to you, no matter if you are using protection. Just slow things down. you can have strong feelings for him but dont rush yourself into a serious relationship. If he gets on your nerves then break up with him.
2006-08-09 08:20:23 · answer #8 · answered by momma2jaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl you are too young to be fallin in love. Go on with your life and the right person will come along there are many boys out there then this one boy. I know you really like him but I think u are very young for this you can keep seeing him but you shouldn't get too serious.
2006-08-09 08:08:24 · answer #9 · answered by Alexia S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick up a book before you even go any further you language skills suck,im serious,your gonna be another single parent mom,with a deadbeat baby daddy,and we will have to support the welfare your on,honestly,im not being a jerk,your 13 and i know 8 year olds with more common sense and intelligence then you,close your legs and open a dictionary
2006-08-09 08:08:09 · answer #10 · answered by mesmokyweed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋