2006-08-09 07:18:30 · 28 answers · asked by Berry Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Are you that lonely that you can't find a man that's not in jail.Come on this man is in jail have three kids and you still hanging around.You need to get some self love and esteem and move on.Not trying to be harsh, but life is to short to be waiting for this cat to get out and then what.You become a step mom to three kids and deal with the wife.It's not worth it trust me.Find you someone who is more compatible to you.
2006-08-09 07:35:48 · answer #1 · answered by missmadhatter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just think before you leap. I don't really know this man but you do. Even if he has been to jail he is still a person with feelings just like anyone else. Kids shouldn't matter, if you love him kids are a part of the package just like if you had a child and you wanted to get married. Kids are a blessing. But you follow your own heart.
2006-08-09 07:25:13 · answer #2 · answered by Nita C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first i would like to say no , i have being down there road before i got pregnant by a man that was always in and out of jail there is no life for u or anybody that stay with somebody that is in jail , anyway like i said i got pregnant and he left me at two months and went to jail and did not get out to i had the baby what the baby was 6 mths old and then he went back in 2 mths longer so just leave him and alone and find somebody that will be there for u and that will not go to jail
2006-08-09 07:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His next girlfriend would ask: My boyfriend is in jail and has four kids and he wants to marry me what should i do i have no kids? There is a reason these people are in jail.
FInd a better, decent person to spend your life with.
2006-08-09 07:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by dude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first reaction is: run like the wind. But that does not seem very fair to your situation. I would not marry him however. He needs to prove to you, himself and his children that he can get his act together, live responsibility and well. From what you have said, being in jail, he has not lived well. Once you get married, his problems really become your problems. His finances (good, bad or ugly) become your finances and visa-versa. If you are worried about his kids, you can still be a good role model for them and not marry him. You can be supportive and helpful and a parental presence without saying I DO! Best of luck to you.
2006-08-09 07:28:00 · answer #5 · answered by harpowoman1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha ha ha... he is joking right? hell no u shouldn't marry him.. 1st of all he's in jail.. what can he do for u and his 3 kids that r not urs?? u need to find u a man w/a future and no jail record.. all men want to claim someone when there in jail cause there lonely.. i say u break it off w/him and let him know that doing bids r not for u.. u have ur own life to live, don't make his problem or his kids urs...
if u marry him his bills become ur bills including the child support bill..
i say keep it moving, u got ur whole life ahead of u and he doesnt...
2006-08-09 07:26:32 · answer #6 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has 3 kids, and is in jail? How old is this guy? What is he in jail for? My first thought is you should GET AWAY! Why tie yourself to someone like this? I assume you must be young, or you would know without asking this guy is BAD NEWS. You deserve so much better. Let him clean up his own mess.
2006-08-09 08:10:59 · answer #7 · answered by Debbie D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question sounds suspiciously like "Corner" but in fact has element's of "Ain't it Awful?" and "Look how hard I'm trying", from Eric Berne's classic, Games People Play.
The mere fact that you ask if you should marry him means you know you should not. But you're going to marry him anyway, against your better judgement and then years later, you're going to regret it in a way you can't even imagine right now. Make no mistake. The meteor is coming.
2006-08-09 07:25:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is in jail and has three kids
i have no kids?
really and truely that part has nothin to do with if you should marry someone
My boyfriend wants to marry me what should i do?
really and truely should have been your question
by having the first part and last part it is safe to say
you dont love him
the woman i love has 5 kids
would i marry her ?? yes things may be dificult and hard but
Love is everything it's cracked up to be…It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for.
2006-08-09 07:31:24 · answer #9 · answered by The Beast 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is jail, and he has three kids. Whats in it for you.
2006-08-09 07:25:51 · answer #10 · answered by Ask the Chef 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋