my ex-girlfriend and I use to talk like best friends and then we decide to carry it more than friends and so we had a close relationship for about a year, then after time past she started to treating me different in a bad way but ignored it and later on it got to were she started avoiding me just out of the blue, and of course we had our little fights here and there i knew what was going on for a while although i acted as though i didnt know. but i would ask her if she still loved me and i got no answer soon she wanted to be just friends and now she told me that we would get back together and that she wouldnt talk to anyone and i agree to that also with myself but then later she had a close male friend who she claimed was just a friend but the truth came out later on i stop talking to her and found out she is pregnant for this boy, and he sorta was hitting on her and hes gone now to the army shes broke up with him, i have forgave her and i'm moving on, but she is wanting me back.
2006-08-09 07:05:02 · 47 answers · asked by nightwolf3d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she doesnt sound worth it
2006-08-09 07:08:30 · answer #1 · answered by nunya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, think about this. If that dude was still around, would she pick you over him? Come on, she needs somebody because that dude is gone. And this time it comes with HUGE responsibility. Once a b itch does that, she'll do it again. Okay, so think about this. What if you take her back and then she'll find somebody better? Think about it dude, THE B ITCH CHEATED ON YOU. Look yourself in the mirror, that b itch should be thrown out the window. Treat her like a ho she is. Tell her to go away, completely for good. I know it might be a little difficult for you to withdraw your emotions but you can do so by not answering her calls, make no contact and don't be around her and don't let her be around you. She wants you back... what are you? An idiot.... That girl is entertainment.
2006-08-09 07:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many other women out there that won't treat you like a piece of sh*t, won't cheat on you, won't have someone elses baby, and won't play games. Why are you even thinking about getting back together with her? You need to stay clear of this girl. It's ok for you to forgive her, but that doesn't mean you have to forget all this. Tell her she's forgiven, but that doesn't mean you'll get back together with her. You are asking for A LOT of trouble if you do. This guy won't always be in the army. He'll be back, and her kid is going to need a father. Do you want to be part of that mess? I wouldn't. Show some backbone and walk away.
2006-08-09 07:11:28 · answer #3 · answered by largegrasseatingmonster 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't take here back how many times do u need to get burned before u learn.
yet if you still love her you cant help your self can you!
If you think or hope that there can be anything between you dont take her back right now. leave her alone for a few years to let all the emotions cool. IT sounds like she still needs time to grow up. give her that time. let her know that you would love to be friends with her but that she has made it very hard for you and you are going to need alot of time to beable to consider trusting her again. let her know that you dont think a "relationship" will ever be possible again. but that if you give each other the time for what you each need that maybe one day in the distant future you might consider it but you will have to learn to trust her again and build the friendship back first.
Never try to have a relationship with someone you already know you cant trust. and never try it with out friendship being first.
2006-08-09 07:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by radins06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like she loves you romantically, if at all. Sounds like she has already ruined not only a good friendship with you but what could have been a loving relationship as well, more than once it seems. I think now she's looking for a safe haven and a daddy for her baby. Don't get dragged in. In time she would probably find someone else again and leave you in the dust. Pick yourself up, be strong, and move on. Don't get caught up in her drama.
2006-08-09 07:11:01 · answer #5 · answered by Super-Mom9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very troubled situation. First of all you have to realize that things happened between you to. I understand you were best friends, and you can still be there for her. But really do you want to be hurt again by her? It sounds like she doesn't know what she wants. You have to figure out what you are willing to suffer through and experience with her. No one else can tell you to get back together with her. It's something you have to decided!! Good luck!
2006-08-09 07:09:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense or anything, but it sounds like this girl is a real swine! She is just using you for whatever she can get. You need to let her go, or you will end up even more broken hearted than you already are. This baby she is carrying can be her play to get you to to stay in her life. Don't fall for it! Move on and be happy you aren't the one who got her pregnant!
2006-08-09 07:12:07 · answer #7 · answered by vhcsmamma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldnt take her back. For the simple fact is that she was happy while yall were together and now that nobody is knocking at her door now she is all the sudden ready to get back together. How long will it last this time before she get tired and goes to another man. I understand you still care for her but you need to care for yourself right now and just move on.
2006-08-09 07:10:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell u the truth dont take her back. b/c u deserve better than that and u need to find ur self a girl that love u and hasnt hurt u. there is a reason y it didnt work out in the first place so y go back?
2006-08-09 07:10:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's only coming back to you now because she realizes that she needs a father for her baby. If you want this responsibility, and if you still love her, then go for it. But I wouldn't fall for her little game - because she will probably do the same thing again when she gets bored of you again.
2006-08-09 07:08:56 · answer #10 · answered by Tammy O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is serious about wanting to have a relationship with you then you need to sort out your feelings for her. Also your question did not mention how old you are. Are you ready emotionally and financially to handle a baby.? I think there are a lot of items to be taken into considerations and not enough info in your question to be ble to help you fully.
2006-08-09 07:11:35 · answer #11 · answered by lisaquinn9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋