I am a female in her mid 30's. I have only had romantic relationships with men. I have never been attracted to a woman in person. I am very attracted to men. What confuses me is that I really enjoy watching girl on girl porn, and I also like to view girl on girl porn on the internet- in magazines. When I masturbate- it helps if I can watch or see photos of females getting it on. I don't fantasize about having any sort of relationship with a woman, but I am turned on by the idea of having a woman pleasure me. It is strictly about sex- nothing emational.
Am I bi? A lesbian?
2006-08-09 06:38:01 · 15 answers · asked by funinsun 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Without being a mind reader, you sound bisexual to me. I base that on the fact that I could have written the exact same thing a couple years ago, and so could my girlfriend, and a couple of friends. What you're describing is a pretty normal part of the process. It starts with emotionally removing yourself from the sex, then it leads to the sex, then the sex usually leads to you being emoitonally involved. But hey, I also have another friend who loves girl on girl porn and identifies as completely straight (I don't really believe her but that is a whole nother thing).
Make some moves and see where it leads you. Don't worry so much about labels or normal or whatever, that will come to you in time. Just be the best you that you can be, gay, straight, bi, lesbian, whatever.
2006-08-09 06:55:01 · answer #1 · answered by dani_kin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was this way,too. I had my first woman to woman relationship at the age of 35. Until then I had only been with men,married and had a child,too. Once I acted on it,I found that,I am indeed bisexual,and like both sexes. You may or may not feel the same way if you acted on it,and you might not ever chose to act on it,but I'd call you bi curious. And it's confusing,if you need to talk,feel free to email me through my profile,and good luck
2006-08-09 21:35:07 · answer #2 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not having a desire for a relationship with a woman is neither here nor there. You don't have to want a relationship to be sexually attracted. Many women are receiver's only - not really that uncommon. You may be bi indeed, kind of hard to deny when watching women together adds to your sexual excitement.
(Answered by Elway's sister lol)
2006-08-09 13:47:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not either.......in my opinion. Its very erotic seeing two women pleasuring each other. I get very excited watching the same type of porn you enjoy, in fact I prefer watching girl on girl porn rather than any other porn. I have had a few experiences with women and its totally different than being with a man. I dont feel anything towards the women but I do enjoy what goes on between us sexually and women are usually much better with their tongues. They are often very sensual and slow and gentle....more foreplay. I hope you experience girl on girl action soon.....too bad you dont live near me :)
2006-08-09 16:21:22 · answer #4 · answered by honeyinthelexus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a classic case of being "bi curious" to me.
Just bite the bullet and find someone to satisfy your curiosity. Be open and honest with them. Let them know that this is to find out if your bi or not. Most people, when treated with honesty and respect will respect your motives.
Hopefully you will know the answer to your own question. After all, you are the final judge of who and what you are.
2006-08-09 14:32:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are straight and should stop watching so much porn.
Bisexuals are attracted to girls and guys in more then a sexual way. It's about feelings and a real relationship with either.
2006-08-09 14:38:58 · answer #6 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, all signs and symptoms point to U r a bi. sure.
the lesbi is hidden , and need not come out except in fancy/masturb/dream.
Yet u may find pleasure if u r on a woman and a man, ur man, enters u from behind. s, sxx, none emotional.
2006-08-09 13:47:24 · answer #7 · answered by kamesvari i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just being normal.I mean I can't tell you your sexual orientation, because I don't know what feelings you have.If you havn't fooled around with any of your lady friends by now, chances are you are straight.Don't be confused by being turned on by naked ladies.It is natural for all human beings to be attracted or turned on by the sexuality that comes from the sight of a naked body.I think you're perfectly straight.
2006-08-09 13:45:36 · answer #8 · answered by DJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
congratulations, you are bi, and if you actually encountered a woman physically you would probably become a lesbian. That is something you will have to try so you will know
2006-08-09 13:42:37 · answer #9 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bi, which means you like both. Congratulations.
2006-08-09 13:53:31 · answer #10 · answered by Babs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋