each other almost everyday, but since a couple weeks about four weeks, he has just suddenly gone cold on me, he is not aswering his phone and everytime he is busy with something else when i call the house phone. when i do get him on the phone he asks me to call him in half an hour or one hour, and when i do that he end up doing something else. should i take a hint that he want me to bugger of and never bother him again. Also we have had a tiff and i want to solve this before i come to australia, sent him flowers to apologies and not even a thank you. even though we have planned it that this coming september i'm coming over to australia to spend some time with each other which is real soon now. any one know what i should do. i can't believe the love we have for each other he just goes on and closes his heart just before my departure time.
2006-08-09 06:32:00 · 10 answers · asked by tears 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He's obviously having second thoughts about the whole thing. If he is the only reason why you're going, I would immediately cancel the trip.
You can try talking to him and ask him straight up what is wrong. Since he's obviously avoiding you that may be hard. He might be nervous about seeing you. He might have found someone else. You might not hear what you want to hear. Be prepared.
Sounds like he's not the one for you...hate to say it.
2006-08-09 06:38:46 · answer #1 · answered by Miss. A. Laneous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, 9 times out of 10 virtual (phone/internet) relationships are more fantasy than reality, so you shouldn't be surprised. Its rare that it works out.
Second, what was the argument about? That's the most important thing about the relationship so far. There are many things guys just don't get over when it comes to disagreements. If you hit one of these nerves - see ya!
Text him that you need to talk, so you don't waste all your money on airline tickets. Be direct. If you don't get direct answers, end it and get a refund.
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2006-08-09 13:41:03 · answer #2 · answered by robabard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were i would just go on the trip and if u run into him oh well just have fun while u are there!!! and he might not be that much into you anymore but still call him once a week just to keep in touch!
2006-08-09 13:57:37 · answer #3 · answered by cookieluvr2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he to is realizing that your departure is close and he is afraid. Just try to be patient and if he doesnt ackmolegde that your hurt then he isnt right for you.
2006-08-09 13:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont have time for this! Retype this quastion in a short way! That`s the quality answer to you from I!
2006-08-09 13:37:53 · answer #5 · answered by Jerdy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it sounds like he isn't interested, and you should cancel your trip. What you had for each other was just infatuation, and he probably found someone else.
2006-08-09 13:36:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your doin to much this had happend to me to if a guy just stops callin you stop caling its a waist of time and if he calls you tell him what was goin on dont even bother with him any more just let him be
2006-08-09 13:45:50 · answer #7 · answered by giggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE YOU SHOULD ACCEPT THE FACT THAT HE IS JUST A USER AND NOT AS NICE AS YOU ONCE THOUGHT HIM TO BE AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE.
2006-08-09 13:40:22 · answer #8 · answered by sexyg37 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
save your money please!! don't call or contact him in anyway! it's hard, but you have to move forward with your life. i think he has made it clear (in a cowardly way of cause) that he is not interested anymore
2006-08-09 13:38:15 · answer #9 · answered by Echo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's been playing you honey. Move on.
2006-08-09 13:36:35 · answer #10 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋