The reason I posted this question is becuase on my last question I got a female asking if I am that ugly etc. That had nothing to do with the question and yes that is me in the picture but I am not showing my entire face becuase I have posted questions related to my job. I do not just mean here but in general. Why can't we as females just appreciate when another female is looking good and is successful? There is no reason to hate.
2006-08-09 06:22:03 · 54 answers · asked by Lin 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I don't meam all just some.
2006-08-09 06:31:33 · update #1
Ok, some people answered the question while once again some females chose to be hateful. To the one that said I need attention, honey I have a 3.78 and I am proud! Yeah thats right someone can actually look okay and be smart!
2006-08-09 06:57:06 · update #2
I often ask the same thing. Why do girls hate on each other? Where does it get them? No where. Just be civil to one another.
2006-08-09 06:24:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is because we as women just have that jelous tendency in us no matter what. Life is a competition, grades in school, landing that job, men, friends etc. So I think it's just natural for us to be that way. I think men feel that also they just do not say anything about each other. I know men feel like nothing, when there is a hot succesful man that they see with a nice car and woman. I know that it usually does not bother me to see another beautiful successful woman its the ones that are and know it and act very rude and like there **** don't stink that bother everyone.
2006-08-09 06:28:15 · answer #2 · answered by les 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree! There are many women who have no respect for her "sister". Some women just "hate" for no apparent reason. What's so hard about complementing another woman on her success, beauty or likewise? I do it all the time, but I am complemented just as much too. Us, women have to stick together. Don't be jealous of what the other has, make due with what you've been blessed with!
2006-08-09 06:48:10 · answer #3 · answered by Sunny Skies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, I think it's just the way girls are.
I know for me, I have more guy friends than girl friends. Even in high school, I hung out with the guys.
Girls can be so petty! There is always going to be a more successful woman or one that is hotter. We might as well get used to it!
I don't show my face either and it has nothing to do with what I look like. Anyways, who cares what your face looks like, you're body's hot!
2006-08-09 06:30:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you post questions about work and feel the need to have a pic, why not post a cartoon pic or none at all. The reason ppl or women are hating on you is because it looks like you're flaunting you body (t*ts mostly). And, you are pretty dumb to ask a question like that AND have a pic like that.
2006-08-09 06:28:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it all comes back to how a female looks. Other females are worried that she may get ahead/have more friends/be more successful/get the hot guy than them because she is prettier. Everything kind of becomes one big competition to them. They are jealous that you ARE successful and pretty as well and look for ways to fault you for it. This means that they are just insecure with themselves.
Don't let it get you down. Be thankful for what you do have, and let them deal with their own insecurities. :-)
2006-08-09 06:29:58 · answer #6 · answered by GeauxLSU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess now that women show off and everything it's sort of a fight and a competition. I mean you see all this Mis USA and Mis Universe crap... So many woman care that much about looks!
But maybe the phrase I once heard from a movie may explain it: "Every woman cares only about herself."
Hope I helped.
2006-08-09 06:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by brother from QG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a little odd to post a picture of your body and not your face. You seem to be focused on your chest. It looks like you are objectifying yourself. Some women resent other women that objectify themselves because they feel it is undoing their efforts to not be objectified as women.
I wasn't comfortable posting my face to the world either so I chose a photo I thought might represent my personality a little. Avatars are good too. If you don't want to show yourself, don't.
2006-08-09 06:27:17 · answer #8 · answered by tenaciousd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the lady who answered your previous question got a sense of the real you...and realized you put a picture of your body up there because you were fishing for compliments.
Seriously...you mentioned you couldn't put your face up because of your work or your coworkers. Why even bother putting your body up? What's that going to prove? I do believe you're fishing for compliments. It's kind of sad, really, that you have to use your body to get attention when it is, in fact, your brain you should be using. I feel sorry for you.
2006-08-09 06:54:34 · answer #9 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, the old story of "she-rivalry". Been around since the beginning of time. If you find yourself fighting for someone then you've already lost and it will only get uglier the longer you continue. There are many wonderful people out there just waiting to be found. You don't want someone you have to "fight" for, anyway.
2006-08-09 06:27:54 · answer #10 · answered by EMAILSKIP 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instinct.
To produce offspring, a female must attract a male. I've noticed that girls will shoot subtle insults at each other when two or more girls are attracted to the same guy. This is to make the other girls seem less attractive to the guy in question.
Even anonymously, girls will insult each other about looks to inflate their self-esteem.
2006-08-09 06:27:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋