Okay here is the thing me and my fiance have been living together for two years. We only have one car so we work our schedules around until we get another car so i usally end up droping him off becouse i just got a new jobs two months ago but recently i feel like he has been hiding things for example this morning we saw some co-workers of him coming out the building and he went around to get off. He says be dosent want people to know he is being droped off but like any woman im worried am i overeacting or should i just calm down and trust him ?
2006-08-09 06:18:12 · 8 answers · asked by BRENDA L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
...some men are like that...they feel embarrassed for certain things, this might be one of them, so don't think wrong.
Me in the other hand...I would not care and still dropped him off in front of everybody....so next time he comes up to you with the same silly stuff ....drop him off right in front of all his co-workers....that will show him!!
2006-08-09 06:29:39 · answer #1 · answered by fun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he is being honest with you and does feel embarrassed to let his co-workers see him being escorted around by a female. Or perhaps as already mentioned he is not working there any longer and just going throught the motions to pacify you. I would suggest that the two of you sit down to a good night of conversation and be honest with one and other about what it is you both feel is happening in this relationship. Good luck.
2006-08-09 06:27:08 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either he doesn't work there anymore or he has an office fling that he doesn't want to sizzle out. if the "other woman" sees him she may be inclined to stop seeing him, lose interest, or act crazy and confront him in front of you.
You should have stepped out of the car and scream "honey you forgot your lunch" or something.
Make pop up office visits every now and then with lunch or an invite to take him to lunch, show your face around the office, let it be known without being obvious.
that or he was too embarrassed to show he shares a ride with his lady while everyone else is sporting hummers.
2006-08-09 06:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by Skypride 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY are you sure a man? Sounds like a little boy to me.... A man would know how to handle any questions. He could always say that his car is in the shop.
2006-08-09 06:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you just talk to him about it and see what his response is? if you don't have communication and trust , whats left of the relationship.
maybe or maybe not overreacting but still if it bothers you that much, he needs to help you feel relaxed about it.
2006-08-09 06:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by skittlez8o5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him. Communication is key!
2006-08-09 06:33:35 · answer #6 · answered by Judi V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if anything ask him about it
but it might be like that cuz he's a "man" and "men" should always have control of things and should have a car and stuff, form his point of view its like ur treatin him like a lil kid, its like ur droppin ur kid off at school, u kno wat i mean?
2006-08-09 06:24:44 · answer #7 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me that maybe he doesn't work there anymore ??? ..
it's a bit of a weird behaviour from him...
2006-08-09 06:22:33 · answer #8 · answered by Lyne B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋