I really like my sister-in-law and am tempted to sleep with her. How should I approach her about this?

Question

She is probably very unassuming about the whole thing, and has never had a steady boyfriend before. How can I convince her that our little tryst could be a lot of fun?

In case it's not clear, this is my wife's younger sister. She is not married, and has never even had a steady boyfriend.

To further clarify ... I'm not afraid of getting caught. It would be worth it -- I just want to make it happen!

Answer 1

Hey screw it me, if you want to bone your sister-in-law, you might as well do it. You probably don't even want your wife that bad anyway right. So just bone her sister, that way the marriage ends ASAP which leaves you losing less when you get the divorce. I hope that sister is hot though, cuz she will cause you a lot of money, come on man they are sisters, it will come up at some point in time. But SCREW it just plug that hoe anyway!!

Answer 2

you're married now, you need to concentrate on your marriage and sustaining a fulfilling relationship with your wife, if you feel like you still want to have trysts and sleep with other people then you shouldn't of gotten married in the first place, whether or not your sister in law has ever had a boyfriend or any type of steady relationship is really not your concern, your obligation is to your wife so keep it that way going any other route and trying to sleep with others, other than your wife could lead to trouble....

Answer 3

Sister-in-law....one of you is married to the others sibling. Since she's never had a serious relationship, then you are married to her sister.
Bad idea to even think about it dude. Not only will you mess up your marriage, you'll seriously hurt the relationships in their family. Having these two women and their parents and other relatives angry at the girl isn't worth it.
Get over it and get a life, preferably a happy one with your wife.

Answer 4

You should carefully evaluate the relationship you have with your spouse. Obviously there is something not right or you would not even be tempted to cheat. See if your spouse is willing to work on your relationship with you. If not , tell about the feelings you are having and make it known. If you decide to follow up with the sister-in-law i would also follow up with a divorce.

Answer 5

YOU ARE NUTS!! It is NEVER worth it. You will ruin your marriage, ruin your family, ruin your wife's family and destroy a lot of lives. If you didn't believe in your wedding vows why the h*ll did you get married? If you were my brother, I'd kick you from here to eternity (and you WOULDN'T like the eternity you are set up for either).

Answer 6

WhAAT? Little trysts turn into nightmares.
Could create a monster. Or worst awaken a sleeping giant.
Your call.

Answer 7

If anybody is married(in-laws mean married to somebody), stay away from it. You will be sorry. That sort of thing destroyed my life. It wasn't an in law, but a family friend that was that close. Be smart.

Answer 8

If you really like your sister-in-law like you say you do, LEAVE HER ALONE. Let her find her own fun. How about getting tempted with her sister, y'know... the one you MARRIED and said VOWS (solemn promises) to???
Quit trying to ruin 2 lives (more if u have kids) with your selfishness. If u want fun, go sky diving.

Answer 9

Is your sister your brother's wife? Or is this your wife's sister? In any case I don't condone cheating. I think you need to straighten your head around and look the other way.

Answer 10

Take out your firearm in private. Point it at your foot and fire repeatedly until the feeling subsides. It will get you to the same place and be a whole lot less painful.