Nothing is going right...............I mean my grandma likes my cousin more then she loves me (she told me that to my face), she takes his side even if the whole freaking world knows it was not my fault, she tells my family not to talk to me and my friends wont talk to me because there other friends told them that I wanted to brak up their friendship. (Which I ddidnt want to do) I seriously wish I could be a grown up now and get away, I cant stand crying or living liek this anymore! Not even my friends preacher will write back to my emails! I wrote him once, (he answered) second, (its been 6 months and still no anser) Also I am poor, well dont have much money and ppl make fun of my clothes and hair. I have little friends and I ahve had this pressure to lvie with since 1st grade, (I am in 7th now) I cant stand life and which I could comit suicide. HOW could I survive. I could run away. Plz dotn tell me to be calm, bczu I tried for 8 yrs (not counting school) and it didnt work. HELP!!!!
2006-08-09 06:00:23 · 2 answers · asked by EmptySpace 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Sophia my dear, I am so sorry you feel so sad. It hurts you I can tell. Let me tell you how important you are to Live! I am glad you are here in this world! Please don't think about ending your life. You can not help what others stupidly do sweetie, and that was not only cruel what your grandmother said to your face, but shows even old people can be immature!! Kids at school haven't changed since I went! For some reason one group of kids sets the rules for the whole school. That they are better because they dress better. Let me tell you that those kids were taught how to be that way by their parents! It is NOT you!!! Do you have a councelor in school that you could go talk to? a teacher who will listen? You can look for a local church in your area, they should have youth councelors. I know what it is like to be poor too!! If it wasn't for the job I have now I still wouldn't have a computer to write you this. Remember, the kids who make fun of you don't have money, their parents do. And you will not even know them 10 yrs from now. You have your whole life ahead of you, yes, this may bite right now, but it is only temporary. Hard, I know.... If you still feel so bad after reading all the answers you get, write again and we will all talk to you again....You aren't alone!
2006-08-09 06:32:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now you're probably stuck there, but the best thing you can do is get really, really good grades, get a scholarship to a good college, and fly away from this whole thing when you're 18.
Put all your energy into being successful in school, and it will pay off big later. You'll be happy and successful for most of your life after this is behind you, but you have to just stay with it for now. Think about the great future you are working for when it gets overwhelming.
2006-08-09 06:46:21 · answer #2 · answered by Catspaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋