well i ran aways from home because i was accused of something false by my mum,and i spent a month before going back home,now i ran away from home after 5years,because became miserable,i had so much money but all of a sudden i had nothing with the shame and agony i ran away from home,the thruth is life is even more miserable and its like my mums spirit is after me because whatever i do never seems right.i want to go home,will she forgive me or accept me back,how can show remorse for my actions,i am ashamed of myself.
2006-08-09 05:45:09 · 41 answers · asked by splendid 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
go back..she's your mom...she loves you no matter what.
but the truth is that you can't expect her to trust you right away...this is something you are going to have to earn.
become accountable for all your actions, and you'll have to tell you where you're going, with whom, and for how long....until she can trust you again.
good luck....GO HOME!!
2006-08-09 05:48:12 · answer #1 · answered by Flower 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be genuine and never ever do it again. That is the best you can do is be genuine that you are sorry that you ran away. if you are only going home because you ran out of money - you really have alot of explaining to do. Unless they were molesting you, physically and/or psychologically harming you - you really don't have a good ground to stand on for running away. If any of those things were going on you should go to your department of child services (and don't make these stories up - only if any of what I am talking about is true). Otherwise young lady you need to go home and understand you need to face the heat. But if you are from a good home - it may seem bad at first but in the long run it will be for the best in the long run.
2006-08-09 05:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U will not immediatley convince your mom that you are a good child. Both of you need to be open minded and speak about and talk through both your problems. It WILL take some time.
Come back home and explain how u felt that made u run away. Then start discussing plans to avoid future stuggles and problems that will make you run away, make your mom get upset with you, and make you get upset with your mom.
Communication is key. You have to think about what is important to you.You HAVE TO try and solve problems rather than run from them. Even if it seems hopless, u MUST try. Your detrermination to make things right will show your mom that you love her and make you a better human being.
Remember, you don't have to do this alone; there are family councilers, therapists, and several support groups that you, your mom, or both can obtain help from.
Good luck!
2006-08-09 05:56:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are underage, you definitely need to go home. Im quite sure that your mother loves you and is concerned about your well being. You may feel like your mother is always accusing you of something but what you need to do is look at your self and say, "is it something that I am doing wrong?' If so, then it's timeto check yourself. Parents are not always %100 percent right but we do love our children stop running away . . because you are running away from your problems and they will still be there when you come back and will stay with you while you are gone. Dont be ashamed of yourself especially around/with your mother. She is the only mother that you have. dont let these streets out here get you, becasue you are gonna really wish that YOU WERE HOME. Go home baby, go home.
2006-08-09 05:53:26 · answer #4 · answered by spreetray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Mother will never trust you unless you stay put and allow here to be in control. Besides Mothers fear for their children's lives especially when you are a girl. This is dangerous world let me tell you from personal experience. Stay home where it is safe and let your Mother raise her daughter like she was called to do. If only I would have listened to my Mother instead of running away and getting drunk and then nearly being murdered, Maybe She and I would be better mentally today then we are. A Mother constantly worrying about her baby could drive her mad. Go home and hug your Mommy and tell her that you love her. This is a cruel world and you never know when fate may take you or her from this world. Although Mom may not always be right, she is doing the best that she can. I hope that you will take my words of advice. God Bless
2006-08-09 05:53:46 · answer #5 · answered by Amy A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? It sounds like you all need more communication. You should tell your mother the reasons why you run away (which btw, running away isn't a good idea). Be open and honest with her about the things that are going on in your life and the thins that upset you etc. You may need some counseling. As a mother, I know that your mother worries about you when you run away. What if you woke up and your mother was gone? I bet you would even be worried about her.
Sit down and have a heart to heart with your mom.
2006-08-09 05:53:57 · answer #6 · answered by Diamonds_4Ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go home, youll feel better. Trust has to be earned on both sides, but this will take time. Be honest about everything, you can start building trust that way. Ask for forgiveness, and try to forgive your mom too, and ask the Lord for forgiveness also. The Lord will listen when you cant tell your mom something. Mothers love their children no matter what, she will accept you.
2006-08-09 05:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its your mom...she's waiting for you to get to the point your at, she will im sure be very glad your back and at the same time be angry at all thats happend but overall she will forgive you and love you all the same, your shame is life presever, you need to not be so hard on yourself when we go through things our actions are the only way we know at the times to save ourselves, and you did just that, but im sure you already know now there are other productive ways to deal with things. Go home and let her know how you feel and why, she will accept you and forgive you, she already loves you. Im speaking from experience. Been there done that too for different reasons of course.
2006-08-09 05:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by brite star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well babe, you can start on the right track by STOP running away from home every time there is a problem. When a problem arises between you and your mom, sit down calmly and talk politely to her about the problem and this will show her you are mature and your not running from the situation. Good luck.
2006-08-09 05:52:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust takes years to gain and seconds to lose. You're going to have to prove that you've changed with your actions (i.e. don't run away again), because actions speak louder than words. It's going to take a long time and I'm not saying it will be easy, but trust me, you can do it. When you get home, apologize profusely and maybe even show your mom this to help her understand that you are sincere in your intent to be a good child.
2006-08-09 05:51:46 · answer #10 · answered by jajed1127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a mom who has had a child run consistently, I think you just need to go and ask for her forgiveness. Plead your case, if you will. No matter what you have done, she still loves you. After all, she's your mom. And if she allows you to return home, then you need to sit down with her and establish guidelines for living under her roof, but until then just go home looking for hugs and love, because that's the most important part. <<
2006-08-09 05:49:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋