This is kinda weird and embarrasing but is there anything you have to do before giving or recieving anal sex? Anything preparatory? This may seem silly but i trully don't know, thanks for any help :) Oh I am a guy btw, thx!
2006-08-09 05:37:33 · 22 answers · asked by Eighth Deadly Sin 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Receiver should visit the loo to make sure everything's all clear. The penetrator should use lots of lube and a condom. Go slow, enjoy!
2006-08-09 06:00:46 · answer #1 · answered by Speedo Inspector 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
First of all use protection, I will assume you know all the info regarding STD's
You need to clean yourself down there by using an Enema. An enema is a device that is used to introduce water in your colon and flush everything out. Use room temperature water only. Repeat until the water comes out clean.
Sit on the toilet and expell the extra water out. Wait at least 20 minutes before doing anything so the intestines absorbe the remaining water.
This feels very awkward but by cleaning you can avoid the mess and pain.
This is only the technical part. For anal sex you need to be relaxed. A patience, understanding partner is a must, you dont want an inexperienced animal torturing you. Have your partner play with your anus, and use plenty of lube. If you feel your inner sphincter doesn't want to let anything in, please STOP and try it in another time.
Remember that using an enema will debilitate and wash out the natural mucus protecting the rectum so please use condoms, and allow yourself time to rest. Stimulate your prostate, you would be surprised to know you can orgasm just by playing with it.
To give it, once your partner has properly cleaned, you can either rim, or play with one finger. As the active person you need to be understanding and dont pust it all of a sudden, for this causes pain, go slow instead and watch your partners reaction. Once hes used to you, you can increase speed, try different positions etc.
2006-08-09 05:54:26 · answer #2 · answered by Apollo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things will be more pleasant if the recipient takes an enema some time before. (within an hour or so). Not doing so doesn't prevent anal intercourse, but it avoids some of the unpleasant smells and content that can arise if the rectum is full.
If you watch porn tapes, it all looks very clean; but that's because the recipient in those movies has been well-prepped ahead of time.
For first timers, some prior practice with sex toys is a good idea. And also for first time recipients, you'll need to overcome the natural desire of the muscles to contract and prevent entry. Effectively, as your partner starts to push forward, make like you are taking a dump. If you are clean inside, nothing is going to pass or leak out, but you are relaxing the muscles of the anus, making the whole thing much easier for both of you.
Inexperienced recipients will find things easier to control if they are on top of their partner, so that they can decide on the rhythm and depth of penetration they feel comfortable.
2006-08-09 05:57:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be sure the performer is wearing a condom (safety first) besides the safety issue, the latex of a condom will be much easier to lubricate (also very important!) than the bare skin of a penis. make sure that the recipient's anus is welll lubricated as wel as the outside of the condom worn by the performer. Vaseline, baby oil, even cooking oil will work just fine, but there are also a lot of specialty products made for this like KY Jelly, Astroglide, etc.
2006-08-09 05:45:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes there is!!!
First - talk it through with your partner to make sure it's OK with them.
The person who is receiving needs to relax and have lots of lubrication!
The person who is giving needs to be able to wash afterwards!!!
Good Luck!
2006-08-09 05:43:00 · answer #5 · answered by Suzita 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure of this guy‘s past and, if in doubt, don‘t involve yourself.
In any case, whatever your decision, both must use a condom.
2006-08-09 05:55:39 · answer #6 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, before you recieve anal, you should do some practice by shoving things up your *** and seeing how far they go.
2006-08-09 05:41:14 · answer #7 · answered by dalafala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rub benzocaine in there to relax it then add loads of lub, then shes good to go!
2006-08-09 05:42:10 · answer #8 · answered by James c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eat alot of tacos for a week
2006-08-09 05:40:52 · answer #9 · answered by Get Naked 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it. The bumhole is for 1 thing and 1 thing only.....Thats babbing.
2006-08-09 06:34:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋