I just discovered that my boyfriend has begun revisiting websites he used to surf that are sexual dating websites. i.e AFF for all those who know that one. We broke up before because he was on one familiar web site called bp and met a girl then it eventually led to them having sex which is cheating. We broke up then and I took him back. Then I found out after cheating with the girl on that website, he got a crack at his baby mama. He cried his way back into my life saying he will do anything for me. He's in the military and while he was away. He wrote endless poetry of how special I was to him and that we will get married. Well of course this song and dance is getting old. I saw in the browser just days after we moved in together that he's back to old habits surfing AFF. I given him chance after chance. This pony and show is over should I give him the boot? I suggested counseling, do you think that could help in this situation?
2006-08-09 05:31:57 · 10 answers · asked by sunny d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Since you were foolish enough to move in with him and you knew his habits you bought the show. Get out and get out now and never take him back. This kid is not planning on changing because he is addicted to porn. He needs deliverance not forgiveness at this stage in his life.
2006-08-09 05:41:45 · answer #1 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-12 04:29:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ONLY way anyone will change is to want that change. He will NEVER change for you or anyone else until he realizes and wants to. If you don't want to make the change to accept his behavior then perhaps you should find someone whose more in tune with YOU. Counseling will not help, especially if he doesn't believe there is a problem. You'll just be wasting time and money.
2006-08-09 12:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by miblackpearl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't accept what he is doing then maybe you should leave him. We can never change other people's behavior. We can only change ourselves. If you can change the way that you react so that you are not unhappy about what he is doing then OK otherwise you will have to realize that you are either going to be unhappy because you don't like what he is doing or leave. Arguing will not change the situation it will only heighten the misery.
2006-08-09 12:37:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope...if he would lie to you he would lie to a counselor...I am sure he is a nice guy..you just can't trust him...he has had his one chance and blew it...give yourself and someone else who is more deserving a chance...give him the boot.
2006-08-09 12:38:24 · answer #5 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think so. If you want spend the rest of your life with this cheater then stay. if not, run fast.
2006-08-09 15:50:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know what you should do. Leave him. Unless you like getting hurt.
2006-08-09 12:37:31 · answer #7 · answered by hellrazor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Old Dogs never change their tricks.......time to rethink your future.....you only live once.......there are plenty more fish in the sea..........good luck...... L.Butler
2006-08-09 12:38:03 · answer #8 · answered by Lynne B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its really up 2 u. do u like gettin hurt? if sooo stay w/ him if not,leave his sorry ***.
2006-08-09 12:39:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave and never return his call. you can do betterr than that
2006-08-09 12:36:03 · answer #10 · answered by IndyMM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋