For the last 4 months Ive been in a long disatnce realtionship. I met this great guy last year and we met up again this year, exchanged phone #s and have been talking ever since. We said we loved each other after a week of talking , and we both truly meant it. I can tell him anyhting, and he actually listens , and cares about what I tell him, and he can make me laugh more than anyone I know, if I lost him I feel I would just die. We ahve alot of trust in each other and I care for him really deeply, but lately Ive been wanting to explore my options, I cant stop looking at other guys and I cant help wondering if maybe he would be better for me.I feel I need someone around me who can take me out every weekend insted of once every 2-3 months. I dont want to lose my boyfriend , and I know I love him but I dont know why im looking for other guys, am I really in love with my boyfriend?
2006-08-09 05:02:45 · 8 answers · asked by Sunshine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it's cause you need more than just a telephone. you see all your friends going out, & you want that. it's not wrong, but don't break up with your boyfriend. He loves you, & that IS wrong to mess true love up. Later yall will be together. But, for the meantime, I'd see if he could come more often & if he can't, make a girls night out. That's always fun. lol. GooD LucK!
Also, looking at guys is never wrong! you just can't touch. haha!
2006-08-09 05:10:33 · answer #1 · answered by Kerosene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds good to me but this boyfriend cant give you what you want someone thats there for you all the time and can hold your hand you know I did this before and It sucked I thought I loves the guy and he was wrong for me and a real jurk although I wouldnt have known that cause when I seen him he was nice and gentel
2006-08-09 12:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by Lauren D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are looking for something different than your boyfriend can give you right now. And thats ok, explore your options. Maybe someday you and him can reconnect on a different level. Be fair to yourself and do what you want to do.
2006-08-09 12:08:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are having second thoughts than there is no reason to continue to persue this relationship
2006-08-09 12:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by ~*Katie*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in love then you don't need to ask anyone.
2006-08-09 12:10:44 · answer #5 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and it's nateral to be interested in other guys
2006-08-09 12:11:33 · answer #6 · answered by Mare. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you miss him so much and u cant stop lookin at other couples!! kall him
2006-08-09 12:18:46 · answer #7 · answered by sexy-babbie_101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes go for it !
2006-08-09 12:07:13 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋