2006-08-09 04:57:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
You have to live without him.
The problem is he isn't interested and as much as you'd like to change that, you can't.
If he ditched you` he's moved on.
Don't let him have any more power to hurt you again...
2006-08-09 05:00:35 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I would not suggest waiting for him specifically, it is easy to see you are still hung up on him and so you will probably have a rough time trying to find someone else and being the proper companion for anyone new. I would suggest being alone for a while (6 months at least, more if you need it) to learn to be without him and to learn to appreciate yourself and what you can offer again. This can only translate to better chances with someone new, or it will give him time to see it if he has made a mistake (though I wouldn't recommend waiting solely because you believe he will change his mind). By this I mean after you've been alone for a short while if some guy asks you out, don't say no because you believe the old boyfriend may be back one day, give the new guy a shot. This seems big now but it goes away (I was in the same situation relatively recently, I am going out with this great girl now because I followed this advice).
2006-08-09 05:04:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I am sorry for the heartbreak. Heartbreak is part of life and part of the lessons we learn - learn from it and move on.
Someone who "ditches" someone after 6 years is not worth being with. You have much to offer. Learn from this experience, and move on - it's the best thing for you. Allow yourself time to heal, and "yes" you can live without him.
One should never be in a relationship where they feel they "need" the other person. A relationship should be mutual respect and love toward each other - each bringing something to the relationship but not "needing" the other to survive. Now, it hurts to lose someone, but use it to learn and grow.
2006-08-09 05:00:56 · answer #3 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really is nothing you can do. You have to let go. I know it sounds hard but you can't change what he wants. "love is only half the battle", it takes a lot more than love to keep a relationship alive. Do you really want to be with someone who just up and leaves you after 6 years, that doesn't sound like someone who really feels the same as you do. You can't be the only one putting time and effort into this, it takes 2! Good luck and keep your head up!
2006-08-09 05:04:43 · answer #4 · answered by pdanielleh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must move on! Do it for yourself! If it was ever really meant to be, he will eventually come back to you, but by then you might of found someone much better! Don't be afraid to see other new people. My ex husband use to tell me no one would ever be interested in me, and wanted me to think that way. Well I got tired of him not paying any attention to me, and everything with him was his hobbies! I went out one night, and to my surprise, there are alot of nice guys that you can talk to and date! Their are some not so nice, but their are good guys! Don't give up and don't despair, and good luck!
2006-08-09 05:11:59 · answer #5 · answered by autumn wolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First look @ the reason y he left you. Be honest with yoself. From that angle you can find which way to go.
Waitin 4 him myt be risky,he might never come back. But follow yo heart. You'll have no one to blame, not even yourself bcoz within u, yo decision feels right. Move on or wait - follow your heart. Speaking from experience.
2006-08-09 05:07:18 · answer #6 · answered by Bels 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something is not quite right if he ditched you. dont know what happened for him to do this after that length of time. some guys just get into the same old routine and get bored. read some tips and articles on relationships and more on this site
2006-08-09 05:13:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It feels like you can't live without him, but you can. You need to seperate your feelings from reality. If he broke up with you after 6 years you need to move on. If you wait for him it will only make him value you less- he will see you as always being there.
2006-08-09 05:06:57 · answer #8 · answered by korbbec 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on if he ditched ya it means he dont wan ya so y go aftr some 1 hu does not want ya
u may find some 1 bettr than him
2006-08-09 05:02:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is said
If you love something set it free
if it comes back, it's yours,
if not, it was never yours.
Whatever the result you should live on with what you have.
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2006-08-09 05:15:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋