2006-08-09 04:55:08 · 75 answers · asked by Totty D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sweetie, if he's your ex man, you really have no say over who he sleeps with.........Your best friend, on the other hand, is a different story........She should know that this is going to cause conflict between the two of you........Have joy in the fact that she is settling for you leftovers.......Take care, hun......
2006-08-09 04:59:01 · answer #1 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
OK ex means that EX. It is not your concern or business who is sleeping with whom he is sleeping when he is your EX.
I agree you may be upset with your best friend but you do not control other people's lives. So you need to let go and move on with life. If you feel a need to say something to her, write a letter/email and once it says what you want without all the emotions you can either send it or burn it.
Sounds like you still have feelings for your EX and that may be the major problem. You need to move on with life because it appears obvious that your EX sure has!
2006-08-09 05:03:01 · answer #2 · answered by banananose_89117 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, did you say EX? So how many ex's do you have? I know lots of people who throw other people away and then get mad cause somebody else wants them.
Have you ever heard that one girl's trash is another girl's treasure? Or is it that since she is your best friend, she should punish your ex boyfriend by leaving him in the abyss where you have thrown him?
Grow up. Get real. Leave them alone. Live and let live. She didn't tell you because she knew this was exactly what would happen.
2006-08-09 05:02:46 · answer #3 · answered by NANCY K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your best friend. Guys are usually jerks about these things, and plus, he's your ex. You should def be mad at your best friend not only for sleeping with your ex but also for keeping it from you. Your best friend should value your friendship more and not risk losing it by sleeping with your ex. Your ex, on the other hand, has nothing to lose b/c you already broke up.
2006-08-09 04:59:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex is your ex for a reason, but your friend should have at least brought it up with you so as to not hurt your feelings. I don't think you should be too mad though. Maybe she was just afraid to tell you she liked him in the first place. Just have a good heart to heart and get over it. It's probably not worth ruining a friendship over.
2006-08-09 04:59:14 · answer #5 · answered by Alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is, are you really mad or do you just feel like you have to be?
If you are mad then which one makes you madder when you think about what happened?
Time heals all wounds and I suspect that one day you will look back at all this a just laugh, whether you are still friends with your current best friend or not.
2006-08-09 05:01:25 · answer #6 · answered by Whitelord 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex doesn't owe you anything anymore, you've no right to be mad at him/her (unless this happened before you broke up - in which case neither your friend nor your ex is being true to you).
Your friend should have talked to you about his/her interest in your ex before moving forward with that relationship, out of friendship. But you would have had no right to stop them (assuming this all went down after you broke up), as you don't control other people.
2006-08-09 04:58:42 · answer #7 · answered by jtislerics 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best friend ... the guy's already your "ex" so it's a waste of time getting mad with him.
Did she start sleeping with him while you were still together? If so, she betrayed your trust - if not, she just wants her head looked at unless she's always had the hots for him and was maybe instrumental in breaking you up?
2006-08-09 04:59:02 · answer #8 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be mad at your friend. Thats number 1 in the Friendship Commandments. Thou shall not covet friends ex. You shouldnt be talking to your ex anymore anyway. So move on and do not speak to either of them. With friends like that who needs enemies?!
2006-08-09 05:00:09 · answer #9 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex is your ex, but your best friend should have told you. Actually should have asked you before doing this, I'd be more mad at her, but remember people cant help their feelings! try to be understanding, but maybe warn her of the reasons that you split up with him!
2006-08-09 04:58:36 · answer #10 · answered by ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, neither of them since he was your ex, but I understand that friends prefer their exes to be off limits. This isn't always practical; and both are free to pursue each other without deference to you. That being said, I 'd probably feel a little twinge of discomfort if a friend of mine wound up marrying my ex-wife, but I know it would only be a matter of time before he was at my door moaning, "why didn't you stop me?"
Live happily...there's plenty of room for all of us.
2006-08-09 05:05:05 · answer #11 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋