Dream interpreters needed - what does this dream mean?

Question

I dreamed things were not going well with my marriage. I felt neglected and that my hubby was only doing enough to say he was there like pay bills and eat dinner with me every night. Other than that my emotional needs were not being met and he didn't try to work on it. Finally I meet a guy that ends up proposing to me. He was wonderful, patient , understanding and he didn't rush me to make a decision. In my my dream you can divorce someone by just marrying someone else but you have to call the ex hubby or wife to let them know (funny, I know). So I decided to marry this guy and when I called my now ex hubby I was so sad and I felt sorry for him and just bummed out about the whole thing like I wanted to reverse everything. In my dream he was just kind of quiet on the phone but I don't remember much of a reaction after that, I think I woke up. What do you think this dream meant?

Answer 1

The unconscious mind has many very important functions, not the least of which is dreaming. During our r.e.m.(rapid eye movement)sleep, our needs are met through the antics of our inner mind with symbols that may consist of sometimes wild people, places and things. It has been scientifically proven that when subjects are deprived of r.e.m. sleep, they quickly begin to exhibit signs of mental illness. So, this business of dreaming is an extremely important part of our well-being.

Although you may not want to admit it to yourself at this point, your unconscious mind is well aware that the pain of your husband's lack of emotional commitment is causing you some problems. In an effort to ease the pain, you have been given your heart's desire, if only for the length of time it takes to dream. Believe it or not, this short period of fulfillment can be a very important coping mechanism when "reality" holds no easy solutions.

You might want to tell hubby about the dream. My guess is that he is in a considerable amount of emotional pain as well, and unable by himself to find a way out. He probably would like to be your dream man, as much as you would like him to be, but may be hindered by a lack of nurturing in his early family life.

I suspect between the two of you, that your emotional capacity is the greater. In a loving way, encourage him to join you in counseling, so you can regain that original closeness that caused you to marry in the first place. This is one dream that can become a reality in a good way.

Answer 2

Two things.

1. Trust, - Your subconscious mind is telling you that you don't trust your hubby and yourself in terms of marriage. You are trying to look for something better.

2. Satisfaction - You may not be satisfied with him now, therefore you projected an image that will satisfy your need in dream.

In conclusion, you want your marriage goes better. However, you may not get it in real life. So you project an image or a guy that you can depend on. It seems like in reality, you lose trust or you don't want to depend on your hubby or just plain not fully satisfied from him. Again, this message is from your subconscious mind.

Answer 3

Go buy yourself a dream dictionary, or do some research online for dream interpretation, dream psychology, and/or dream analysis. Anyone on here is just going to be giving you their best guess as to what your dream means. For more accurate results do your own reading and research.
Dreams are a highly subjective and personal experience, and a dream dictionary is a source of commonly accepted meanings for different type of dream symbols and events. The dream dictionary isn't always right, but sometimes it is amazingly accurate.

Answer 4

Well I hate to say this but...I think your Bisexual your emotional needs for another woman secretly is your problem.

Answer 5

You may be unstable with your marraige and unsure if you picked the right man.

Answer 6

It sounds like you are looking for something in your husband that is not there.