2006-08-09 04:02:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
If you can't stand this life, what makes you so sure that what is waiting for you in the afterlife isn't worse? If hell is real (and I do believe that it is), then you would just be ending your stay in this world just to move to a more hopeless and terrible place.
You may not believe it now, but as long as you are alive, there is hope. Take it from someone who tried it too.
Take a look at this site. If you're looking for hope, He's the only one who can give it. I'll pray for you...
http://www.gty.org/index.php?section=how_to_know_jesus_christ
2006-08-09 04:10:46 · answer #1 · answered by TY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not! It's so final. It's also selfish because you are the focus of your universe and nothing else matters accept your happiness and since things aren't going that great, why not end it all!
So many people will be affected by your act of suicide. It will have so many repercussions.
Many will also be hurt and bewildered by it all and wonder how they failed you in some way and what could they have done differently to prevent it from happening!
These are the things we don't think about because we are so focused on ourselves and the overwhelming circumstances surrounding our lives at present that we feel helpless to overcome or withstand. But stand we must because we have more fortitude than that and we have a purpose for living, we were born for a reason! This you must find out for yourself.
Start by thinking in the positive. For every negative there is a positive. Keep on doing this for everything that happens to you from now on and soon you will have built yourself up to a point where it will be easier and easier to cope with life and its circumstances and situations.
Then, go out and find someone that needs your help! There are always people in worse straits than you. I see homeless people everyday on my way to work. Maybe you do too?
Go to a nursing home and ask at the desk "Is there any one here that doesn't get any visitors? I'd like to visit with that person today".
Volunteer your time somewhere. A school mentor, teach a child to read? Anything at all that you can get involved in, do it! For your mind and emotional health, just do it!
2006-08-09 04:57:41 · answer #2 · answered by December Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there many times. What stayed my self the first time was seeing the moon light on my class ring. The light showing on the stone was beautiful. Now I look for little things. The taste of Jelly, the smell of herb tea. A painting. Any thing to take my mind away from the pain. Just remember that you always have the choice not to do it. I won't make the decision until ten minutes from now. I won't make the decision until I call some one and so forth. Man having been there I understand.
2006-08-09 05:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by James L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-04 05:06:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be scared. Don't give up. There's a time for everything. A time to cry and a time to laugh. A time to weep and a time for joy. Do not give in just because of how you feel or how are things going for you. Life is not perfect. People can be mean but there are also people out thee who really care about you. We can't always depend on our feelings. If you feel negative about yourself or you've done things you regret it's coz u're only human. Also your feelings are true...it's true that you're feeling lonely, overwhelmed, but it doesn't reflect who you really are. In God's eye (whether you believe in him or not) You are beautiful, strong, kind, loving, patient and most of all loved so much. You might give up on him or don't believe in him but he never gives up on you and he believes in you. Things happen only for you to become a better person and when you get through this your experience will help someone else as you've been there and done that. We feel empty at times but Love never goes empty it's always full and connected to you. Just grab it in the midst of your pain and you'll be surprise.
2006-08-09 19:19:36 · answer #5 · answered by ---- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most psychological problems are usualy spent from dwelling on your problems too much. Spend more times doing things in life that make you happy. Make yourself busier. Sumtimes the best answer will just be to try and forget. Suicide isnt the best answer. It involves giving up.
2006-08-09 05:58:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is never the best way. Believe me, I've thought about it more than once. Just remember, no matter how bad it gets, you always have something or someone to live for. I hope this answered your question.
2006-08-09 04:09:12 · answer #7 · answered by tiffy_1226 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your purpose in the future is to help others who are desperate and in need. You are going through some of this so that you will be more understanding, empathetic and able to help. It might be helping people or animals or nature, give yourself the chance to find out. Until then keep in mind all the people who are more unfortunate than you. It helps some.
2006-08-09 12:46:37 · answer #8 · answered by marblehead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that really depends on how you feel about challenges that currently exist for you, vs. challenges you may know nothing about, or, are non-existent (e.g., the afterlife might involve lying on your back, staring at the sky, with no ability to move, and all you hear is the sound of a clock ticking--for eternity).
2006-08-09 04:31:23 · answer #9 · answered by mindful1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No suicide is never the best answer. Because if you kill your self you'll most likely go to hell. Just write down all your feelings on a piece of paper.
2006-08-09 04:08:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋