I play an online video game with this guy and recently we've started talking on Yahoo and playing poker together. He's mentioned how much he hates his girlfriend and said the only reason he's with her right now is because he needs somewhere to stay. He told me the other day that he was moving halfway across the country so I asked if she was going with him or if she was the reason he was moving. Well she walked through and looked over his shoulder and read what I had said. Of course she got pissed about it, but he said he didn't care, if she was looking over his shoulder then she deserved to get upset. I apologized and we changed the subject back to poker. Well last night he logs on and says that she has some things to say to me and she proceeded to be very mean and nasty with her comments. I just sluffed it off and laughed at the time, but the more I think about it, the more I want to cuss her right back.I was raised to turn the other cheek but I'm tired of taking so much shlt.
2006-08-09 04:01:31 · 7 answers · asked by kalene_kukana 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think I feel the need to be mean back is because I am usually a very nonconfrontational person. I have been taking alot of crap from alot of people for awhile now because they know they can say or do whatever and I just let it go. I want so bad to stand up for myself but I just can't bring myself to. I'm afraid of hurting someones feelings so I just stand there and let them hurt mine instead. So this is more about standing up for myself then just cussing out someone I'll never actually meet.
2006-08-09 04:13:55 · update #1
first, curse the sh*t out of her. second, curse the sh*t out of him for allowing that to happen. third, disconnect yourself from him.
2006-08-09 04:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by gemone523 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Who cares as you don't even know these people. It is some loser that your playing a game with on-line, he could be stinging you a line so that he and his girlfriend can sit there laughing at you. Your parents did a good job of raising you to turn the other cheek so take their advice and don't worry about what somebody you don't even know has to say to you. Just my opinion.
2006-08-09 04:09:24 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like shes the one with the problem,it was her man saying he was unhappy shes obviously insecure and needs to be don`t let her upset you,if you care about this guy explain to him whats going on because it seems funny hes letting her say this stuff....I`d just blow it off and find someone who is somewhat mentally stable.
2006-08-09 04:17:42 · answer #3 · answered by me_unique2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell your guy friend that he's a dick. He should have had the guts to tell his girlfriend that he was moving instead of letting you take the heat. It sounds like you just need to leave both of them alone!
2006-08-09 04:07:40 · answer #4 · answered by Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the internet, youre never going to meet this person, so dont obsess about it or worry about it. Bollocks to the ***** just ignore her cause its her problem not yours, youre not invested in their relationship. So let it go.
2006-08-09 04:07:32 · answer #5 · answered by Andy!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey
2006-08-09 04:04:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another poker buddy...
2006-08-09 04:07:18 · answer #7 · answered by ksgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋