He loves the porn site with big **** and he makes excuses that his not into sex but then I caught a few times on the internet porn site he doesn't want to watch porn movies with i tried everything to please him put on sexy lingerie I'm not ugly..but his just not interested he always says when its bedtime im tired Hon i have a headache oh! my God! I can't stand it anymore!
2006-08-09 03:46:09 · 7 answers · asked by Lady_J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Porn is an addictive substance and your boyfriend has a serious addiction. That is not an excuse for him and you should allow it to be.
Listen closely: He will NOT change on his own. Addicts only change through radical action. If you have confronted him and he has not changed then you need something else. Either an intervention or, my choice, leave him and hope he changes for the next girl.
2006-08-10 08:52:29 · answer #1 · answered by No Drama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to service you first. However, you are a girlfriend, not a wife, so you really have no rights. But I would tell him it's porn or you, but be ready to find a new boyfriend..... If he wants porn, he should want to share with you...
2006-08-09 03:52:05 · answer #2 · answered by daj11551 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did the right thing and nipped what probably would have become a big problem had you continued your relationship... you deserve a real man... one who doesn't need porn..
2006-08-09 03:55:24 · answer #3 · answered by RAllen1st 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow through with your ultimatum. Leave him to his fantasies, and find someone who wants a relationship with a real woman: you.
2006-08-09 03:52:56 · answer #4 · answered by macguffin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously no longer interested in you sexually, he just doesn't have the guts to tell you. Dump the loser, there are lots of men out there to meet.
2006-08-09 03:52:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-08-09 09:03:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't stand it anymore.. leave
2006-08-09 03:53:20 · answer #7 · answered by mytrollinid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋