Heres the problem. There is this guy who likes me and we have been goin out since last night. He is the most charming and unselfish guy i have ever met. My mom and her friends think we are perfect for each other. The only problem is is that my younger sister liked him too. We are talkin and goin out behind her back becuse im scared that if we tell her it would hurt her really bad. My mom said for us to wait until the right time to tell her but i dunno wat to do. See he had seen me before he ever met her and he said he has liked me ever since he has seen me. They were talking as friends but she thought it was as more than friends so when he told her that he didnt like her like she liked him it really upset her. He still wants to date me and be friends with her but i dont know wat to do. Could someone please give me honest advice!! WHAT SHOULD I DO?? i really like this guy but should i not see him becuse of my sister? she's 14 and im 16 and the guy is older than both of us!! Im desperate
2006-08-09 03:38:54 · 12 answers · asked by rebelchic_0308 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You know you could throw this one back and wait for the next fish to come along.
2006-08-09 08:44:47 · answer #1 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your sister are too young to be dealing with this type of drama. Focus on school and your future and drop this guy. The worse thing is to have a man come between you and your sister. You're just babies14 and 16 men will come and go. My My My you have a lot to learn. But good luck!
2006-08-09 03:46:49 · answer #2 · answered by niquec30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheer on for the older guy that is messing with two young sisters minds. It will just get worse if you stay with him. Straight up? If you are close with your sister and want to keep it that way for years to come? Move on and forget this guy. Your both so young. There will be others.
2006-08-09 04:09:07 · answer #3 · answered by X-Woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a whole lot of crap which i have just read. i think u should go out with him. u are 16. ur sister is 14 and is prob gonna meet and see other guys. ur sis prob has a crush on him but it should soon fade, coz its unlikely she is in love at the age of 14. if i was u i would talk to ur sister and ask her if she is ok about this if she is then just go for it.
2006-08-09 03:45:34 · answer #4 · answered by rocky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blood is thicker than water. Guys come and go, but family is always around. Personal I would not date this guy due to the fact it could hurt my sister. B/c if something is ment to be it'll come around.
2006-08-09 03:44:57 · answer #5 · answered by MsLysa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have only one sister ! do not ever lose some one of family Cos of other guys !
she well never forget this for u and even if he don't like her she well blame u on this cose she well fell unwanted cose of u , its not ur fault but she is too young to know that , how ever guys r come and go , but ur sister is ur sister for ever , good luck
2006-08-09 05:45:10 · answer #6 · answered by brobganda boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your sister should set down with your mother and discuss everything. Concentrate on schooling so you can live a better lifestyle than what you will suffer from should you continue on your present course.
2006-08-09 03:44:44 · answer #7 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy is older than both of yall. Your sister definetly can't date him. You have to explain that to her. But you can give a try.
2006-08-09 03:47:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
like your mom said to tell her when the time is right. she will get over it and find another guy to like.
2006-08-09 03:44:14 · answer #9 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sorry for your sister if he doens't like her, so go for it! tell her that he does not like her and date him!
2006-08-09 03:43:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋