Where do you (personally) draw the line between optimism and realism?

Question

(Realism as in, "An inclination toward literal truth and pragmatism.")

Answer 1

It depends on the situation. I tend to be optimistic about mos tthings in life. That optimistic attitude often helps the hope or desire to become a reality. However, if it gets to a point where realistically it is not going to happen, then realism sets in. I really don't know how to word that better other than with an example: Maybe I am optimistic that I will make a drive to New York in less than 8 hours. Well, as I approach the Lincoln Tunnel traffic comes to a stand still. I'm at 7 hours and 55 minutes. Not quite there. Realistically it's probably not going to happen.

Answer 2

I prepare for the worst. I make plans, visualize what I will do when everything goes wrong, verbalize and tell everyone what I will do when the worst happens. And tell them why I think the worst can happen.

People tell me I am a worrier. Sometimes they think less of me because I downplay all my strengths.

But I find that I cope better emotionally if I am prepared.

Deep inside me though, I know I am an incorrigible optimist. I never truly believe anyone who tells me something cannot be achieved. I simply think they haven't done it well enough. I have a superiority complex actually.

But this is something I hide.

I dare to dream and I always try to reach for the sky but I hide this and verbalize only the worst and the backup plan for everything that fails.

I am a pretender.

Answer 3

I think it's possible to be a Realist and also be optimistic. One can be inclined toward literal truth without deciding that we're all doomed with no hope for survival or peace. Two people can witness one event and react separately to it. I tend to be optimistic about the future in spite of what I see in the media for instance.

Answer 4

Hope for the best, but be prepared for the worst. This is my version of realism.

I'd say a complete optimist would not only hope for the best, but expect it as well.

Answer 5

I draw the line when i can remain optimistic without endangering my objective. Once it starts to, I must shift into the gear of realism.

Answer 6

I would have hoped that Liverpool fans finally crossed it bw realism and sheer optimism but not even that happened ;)

Answer 7

Optimism is hoping for something better. Realism is having a plan to get there.

Answer 8

optimism is strong full hope of winning, surviving,success but realism is figuring the main medium to the success

Answer 9

There is no reality, only perception. Optimism allows me to believe I can alter my perceptions and come to better understand the perceptions of others.

Answer 10

Be realistic enough to accept the things which I cannot change yet optimistic enough to recognise - and change - the things that I can.