how can i start the topic of sex with my new wife?

Question

iam was recently married. it was an arranged marriage. i didn't even see my wife except in photos and telephone. now all done. but how can i suddenly be intimate with her and talk about having children and stuff!!

Answer 1

lol, yh its kinda sticky situation. its like u and ur wife dont talk much then when its night, u both go to sleep. ur wife thinks do i have to sleep in the same bed. then when she does u look at her and obv u dont love each other, u go to her,' shall we have sex' now lol, its kinda funny. but same thing is prob gonna happen to me as well

Answer 2

Just be gentle, it sounds like you already love her very much, so this shouldn't be too hard. Tell her you want to have this conversation, and begin by asking her to share her feelings on the subject. Ask her how she envisioned her children, and what she hopes for in your intimate relationship. Don't worry about sharing your feelings just yet, just start with learning hers, then you can have your turn.

Best wishes

Answer 3

You need to learn about your new bride and let nature take it's course. Arranged marriages are different in this country, but have been practiced for many, many years. Good Luck!

Answer 4

well if it was arranged then she knows what she got into and about sex and having kids just talk to her and find out. see her reaction and go from there

Answer 5

Is it ? an arrange marriage ? hope it works out for you .....just talk to her..i think she probably knows about it sooner or later

Answer 6

I think you might need to get to know each other a little bit first. Then, you will know how to approach her with such questions.

Answer 7

walk around butt naked and tell her it was part of the deal!! this should at least start the dialogue...or laughter!