I am currently living with my childrens father but i have more admeration for him than love.... I met a nice guy at work and we have gone out a couple of times... We mutually have expressed how and what we feel about each other.... Should i feel guilty for having these feelings being that i live with the father of my kids or should i go for it? PLEASE HELP!!!
2006-08-09 03:34:01 · 13 answers · asked by myangels006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ask your husband and children what they think about you having an affair and leaving for another man.
2006-08-09 03:37:47 · answer #1 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you living with the father of your kids? Are you in a relationship with him? Or are you just living there because you have no where else to go? If your in a relationship with him then you need to figure out what your doing.. If your not then you need to move out and go for it... Don't play your children's father like a fool.. Don't lead him on to believe in something that you don't want
2006-08-09 10:40:09 · answer #2 · answered by Funny Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your married to the childrens father then you should see this other guy as lust. Remember the grass seems greener til your in it. You should set and talk about this and see the reaction then you would know if it is admiration or love you truly feel. I think the most important thing here are the kids, how do they see you and their father.
2006-08-09 10:43:07 · answer #3 · answered by xmasman4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least have the decency to get a place and life of your own first. Then tell the father of your children that you don't love but admire him and that you are obviously attracted to others. Then he'll know where HE stands and he'll be able to move on and find a young woman who he can really be happy with.
2006-08-09 10:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by Seagoat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the more pertinent question should be how are you going to manage to start a new relationship when youre in the old one u are asking for trouble and what will probably end up happening is you will lose both and youre kids will have no respect for youand if you have to ask if you should feel guilty really demonstrates youre lack of sympathy you have for the heart youre going to break leave the father of youre children so he could find someone who really cares for him
2006-08-09 10:42:30 · answer #5 · answered by angelina_mcardle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends.. does the baby's daddy think you and him (daddy) are a couple (married or dating)??
If yes, then you need to sit him down and end it (or try to work on it). Move out, get re-established and THEN jump back into the dating pool. Never let the kids meet the new man until you are committed to eachother, it wouldn't be fair for them to get attached to him then something doesn't work out and he goes bye bye.
Dating a co-worker is never a good idea, even if you two are 'connected'. I know.. believe me.. I know
2006-08-09 10:47:51 · answer #6 · answered by mytrollinid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you just living with the kids' father or you have an intimate relationship with him? If you have an intimate relationship, then there is nothing wrong in admitting your feelings for this other man but is totally wrong to 'go for it'. I consider that cheating!! Plain and simple!!!
2006-08-09 10:39:28 · answer #7 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, dating in the work place is always not the best idea. Trust me!
But, you need to sit down and talk with your ex, tell him you wish to start dating again. Be open and honest about the situation.
2006-08-09 10:42:34 · answer #8 · answered by MsLysa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say go for it, but i honestly dont think its healthy for ur kids to watch u go with someone else while the whole family is living together... it wouldnt make sense to them...so i say u shoild consider talking to the whole family before makin any decision ...
â¥good luck â¥
2006-08-09 10:44:58 · answer #9 · answered by custom_made_mami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait... you're living with him because you fell on hard times or something or you're living with him because you're married to him or dating him? If you're married to him or dating him, then of course it's wrong.
2006-08-09 10:41:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋