HEY EVERYONE I AM IN A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP....I MET MY BOYFRIEND 4 MONTHS BEFORE I LEFT AND MOVED HALFWAY AROUND THE WORLD.......ITS BEEN OVER A YEAR AND I'LL SEE HIM TILL NEXT SUMMER......
MY PROBLEM HOWEVER IS THAT I WAS A VIRGEN WHEN I MET HIM AND I DONT HAVE THAT MUCH EXPERIANCE AND OFTEND END UP COMPLAINING BECAUSE OF THE PAIN...I KNOW ITS UNFAIR BUT HE KEEPS TELLING ME HE UNDERSTANDS AND ITS NO PROBLEM......BUT ANYONE WITH HALF A BRAIN WOULD KNOW IT IS.....HE HOLD OFF FOR AS LONG AS POSSIBLE UNTIL I AM SATISFIED THE I JUST DONT THINK HE EVER IS
I JUST FEEL THAT WHEN IT COMES TO THE BEDROOM I NEED HELP.......SO CAN ANYONE GIVE ME ANY TIPS ON HOW TO IGNORE THE PAIN....OR AT LIEST NOT MAKE IT AN ISSUE.
Oh and sorry about the caps i only realised when i finished. xxxxx
2006-08-09 03:30:03 · 15 answers · asked by tiffany j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe its the way he's giving it to you. Because we are all different and like different things in the bedroom....you need to take control and tell him....yea that feels good or no don't do that. Communicate so both of you can enjoy it. Try to relax, it helps to relax those muscles sometimes. Don't be soo tense and constrict the tissue to a smaller target for him. Just relax and let go, give yourself to him.
2006-08-09 03:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by Krazy K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see a doctor it is not suppose to hurt..... long distance relationships is a special case. You have to have real trust and know that you have no control over his or her live. if you are serious about it try meeting and go from there.are you willing to move is he willing to take care of you financially till you are on your feet in the new city. think of all that you will be giving up....
2006-08-09 10:35:11 · answer #2 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to relax yoursef girl when it comes to Love Making, the more you think about the pain, the worst it gets. The more you tense up, the worst you get. So RELAX ... ^_^
2006-08-09 10:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by Hotlips_G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well while he is not there, start having casual sex to loosen it up down there so when he comes you can have amazing sex. Just think of the casual sex as a means to an end.
2006-08-09 10:44:32 · answer #4 · answered by jmthomb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are very tied up inside...so relax & loosen up a little bit...try some sooting music when you both are having sex ...try thinking of all the nice things you love doing...get involved in the sexual act & enjoy it....i know it would be quite unsatisfying for your boyfreind if you are like this...but i am sure he understands...read some nice romantic books..they also arouse you a little bit..
2006-08-09 10:39:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try relaxing your lower half. or maybe drinking a bit to get a little light headed it normally helps with the pain.
2006-08-09 10:34:00 · answer #6 · answered by Jeff L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T WORRY, THE PAIN WILL GO AWAY AFTER THE SECOND TIME. SO JUST TRY TO RELAX AND HAVE FUN. PRACTICE SAFE SEX. GOOD LUCK.
2006-08-09 10:38:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If, and when you have sex with him, just think about something besides the pain.
2006-08-09 10:33:24 · answer #8 · answered by sarahmae6x9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. More foreplay.
2. Practice with a vibrator/dildo while you're apart.
2006-08-09 10:34:31 · answer #9 · answered by 006 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heaps of lubricant - a lot of understanding and a touch of sensitivity
2006-08-09 10:34:37 · answer #10 · answered by milhouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋