Is a normal or a problem? Pls clarify me on ths thx!
2006-08-09 03:19:29 · 22 answers · asked by a V a 4 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Ya sure i mean the normal intercourse, not anal sex.. I dislike anal also
2006-08-09 03:30:27 · update #1
It is the angle in which he is going into your vagina.
I had the same problem with my ex husband as he is quit large.
Try holding onto a pillow under you with your hips tilted more into the air.
You may have to keep adjusting yourself until you find a position that is comfortable for you.
2006-08-15 12:12:15 · answer #1 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have never tried it with my wife. But I presume you mean the normal intercourse but instead of the missionary position, he is entering you from behind (not anal sex). But it should not be painful ..may be the position is awkward and you must try it many times quite patiently....or he should do it slow
2006-08-09 10:27:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know if you mean doggystyle or you mean actual anal sex? If you mean anal sex, then yes it is totally normal to have pain, that part of your body was not intended for that, it is exit only. but if you choose to still do it that way, try some more lubrication next time.
2006-08-09 10:24:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal. You should try to change an angle, maybe just a little bit. You should tell him to be gentler and slower. But, to be honest, if a guy has a small penis it doesn't hurt at all and that position is really enjoyable. With big penises it always hurts at least a little bit. At least that's my experience. :)
2006-08-09 10:52:10 · answer #4 · answered by cityexplorer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the angle in which he is inside you. Just try different positions (rest your chest on the bed/raise up on your hands/anything in between). It's a hard position to get used to, but keep at it and maybe you'll find something amazing! Good luck!
2006-08-09 10:24:09 · answer #5 · answered by Kristine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! I take it you mean via the backdoor.. Don't do it... look at the difference in size first.. and if you rip your perineum.. oooocchhh !! plus it will bung you up & you will be on the chocolate drops for a week or 2..
2006-08-09 10:25:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely use lotsa lube for back door penetration.
Perhaps try a different position as well, like you on your back with your knees up instead of jailhouse doggy style.
2006-08-09 10:24:35 · answer #7 · answered by Besmirched Tea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally found this painful in the beginning with my wetness or with lubrication, and occasionally I still find it somewhat painful.
2006-08-09 10:28:45 · answer #8 · answered by Roxy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there is a problem but not with you your man should take his time and make sure he lubs his pen*s real good then you might enjoy it if not dont let him do it i really dont know what they get out of it except control good luck
2006-08-09 10:40:30 · answer #9 · answered by hollywood462003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all about the angle an you should lubricate but the best solution is go normal dont try any styles
2006-08-16 08:41:01 · answer #10 · answered by stacy,stace from space 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋