Why would this hurt you? His first answer is most likely the honest one. It is human nature for people to look at others and even take a "double take" if the person is attractive. As long as it stops at looking, there is no problem. Try and get over this, it's not worth your pain.
2006-08-09 03:26:53
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answered by Jessica 4
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You are still holding onto a comment from over a year ago?? WOW! I wouldnt really call that "hurtful", geez, what I would call hurtful is, "Honey, Im gonna have a fling on the side, whether you like it or not, cuz its a "man thing"....
If you found out that he was with other women during the separation, would change things, otherwise, you gotta get over it, girl! Move on and have a good communication thing going with your hubby. And please, tell me you have never checked out a nice looking guy?? Human nature!!
"Ya can browse at the menu, ya just dont order"!!
2006-08-09 03:36:28
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answered by Katz 6
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YES HE DID MEAN IT! The reason why he took it back is probably because it was still upsetting you and he didn't want to hear about it anymore. YES, men look at other women (unless they have no sex drive whatsoever). It is a natural thing honey and unless you suspect he is Cheating, then get over the "looking" part. Ever heard of "Look but don't touch" ????? If you can't trust him just because he "looks" then there is no hope for you to have a peaceful, happy and loving relationship because this will continue to eat your gut out!
2006-08-09 03:34:16
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answered by Anonymous
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Man will always look at women, just like how we women like to look at men. Especially mens that we think are good looking. It is just the same with men, so maybe if you see in my perceptive, you would have think that the comment wasnt that hurtful. However, different people react to things differently. It probably have hurt you badly. He probably just want to see how you react and how much you are concerned about him. Just let time heal the woulds. Different people will take different time to heal so do let him know how much it has hurt you, to prevent another hurtful comment from him again =))
2006-08-09 03:27:24
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answered by yanshan 2
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Get over it and quit hanging on to some inconsequential thing that was said when you weren't together anyway. Sounds like you are just holding on to it to stay mad.
2006-08-09 03:23:38
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answered by janicajayne 7
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COMMUNICATION(KEY WORD)
U NEED TO TELL HIM HOW U FEEL
2006-08-09 03:22:09
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answered by JAZY 4
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