There are so many times I want to quit my boring career (why does it require an advanced degree? ) and leave my boring marriage (did I trade passion for security?) and move from my cookie-cutter neighborhood (is that another weed-eater?) and send my kids to grandma's (why did I buy them all these toys? I don't want to play with them!)
I know I shouldn't leave any of it because I'm *lucky* to have it all and I would be devastated if I lost any of it, especially my beloved children (I feel guilty even writing this question). I have no where to go, either. I am just so bored with my life, and wonder if something like a quiet little affair would be so wrong, but even that requires energy I just don't have.
2006-08-09 03:17:10 · 3 answers · asked by west of the Atlantic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What's right for you won't feel right if it means hurting other people.
2006-08-09 03:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by justaquestioner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am guessing you are middle aged and probably just going through a mid life crisis. I think everyone feels as you do at some point in their lives. An affair isn't the answer. It will either make you feel guilty or really make you want to leave and lose it all.
2006-08-09 03:30:03 · answer #2 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take time to find an outside hobbie go to an adult class find something that sparks your feelings you need personal time have your time then you can go back to your family with renewed spirit
2006-08-09 03:46:27 · answer #3 · answered by ascemt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋