why is that being beautifull is everything for everyone?

Question

sometimes , i wish that i was not thAT pretty , i feel like everyone is attracted to me because i am pretty , and they are not atrracted to my personality and they dont give a damm thing about my charachter

Answer 1

Well, I am someone, and I believe that beauty only goes skin deep. I have met some VERY attractive people, and the have turned out to be very mean and very rude, those people are ugly. I try to live my life thinking that everyone is unique and beautiful until They have proved to me otherwise. And, I am sure that people are going out with you because you are attractive, but why are you going out with them? My bet is because they are attractive......

Answer 2

I can only speak for myself. I think I'm attractive. But I'm not nearly as beautiful as many women out there. In fact, I'm often surprised when someone tells me I'm beautiful. But I do try to look my best most of the time. I don't do it to attract attention. I do it so I feel better about myself. You know, everyone has days when they don't feel well, or feel down, or just don't feel very pretty. On those days, if I dress a little nicer and put on some makeup, I automatically start to feel a little better.

Also, I think that the people who concern themselves with looks only are very shallow and not even worth the time it takes to show them your character. Just ignore those people and be yourself!

Answer 3

I'll tell you one thing...while your worried about being too pretty, there are other people that don't have that advantage...now honestly, if you weren't attracted to someone physically would you give that person the time of day...on the other hand...real recognizes real, so if your not fake and neither is the other person, you'll be alright! to answer your question though, being beautiful isn't everything to everybody, just a plus! your personality is what is in important, along with morals and character!

Answer 4

At least you are able to see past those with superficial motives. Feel like a piece of jewelry? Something pretty to wear on someone's arm. My ex wanted some pretty little Barbie doll that he could dress up and show off, but at home we had no relationship. He couldn't stand it that I actually had something between my ears. And when he found out that my IQ was higher than his, well, needless to say, he is my ex. Wade through the users, honey. There is a man out there who will love you without makeup and think you are beautiful because of your intellect, not your cup size. Good luck.

Answer 5

If people are only attracted to your personality, then they aren't right for you. There are a lot of losers out there. Be proud that you have natural beauty because some girls don't. People who really enjoy your personality are the half descent guys! Just stay cool and keep it real. Don't turn phony and one day, Mr. Right will be there. That's what I did! And i found him!

Answer 6

Then you're doing something wrong.....you should have the kind of personality that shines no matter what you look like.

If a person is not smart, not friendly, not kind, not fun to be around the only people who are attracted to them are people like themselves. Your job is to make the inside match the outside. The physical is superficial. That should be one of the first things a good parent teaches their child.

Answer 7

it's ABSOLUTELY wrong! people who seen you like that is not a true friend. Believe in your heart that u have a great character to show than your face and keep your faith, and go on. cause somehow, u'll find that they need your action than just become pretty. But you know, pretty is still a gift for u, otrherwise u regret it you'd better keep it, use it to something usefull, don't use to intimidate other girl. Well, keep up Girl, Fighting!

Answer 8

Most people are attracted to the way someone looks first then it goes from there. It is kind of like shopping for something you want and you like it and then you try it on and it just doesn't fit right. You will find the right one, just be picky.

Answer 9

I don't think it is important to everyone, I know for sure that I have sat around w/ friends ( guys and girls alike ) and had this same discussion. Are you sure it's not your personality also. It is proven that you portray you inner beauty as well. Don't worry so much open your heart and mind. You may meet people that just like you for you. And that you like for who they are!!
Good Luck.

Answer 10

so you think your character is bad huh......?you know what you should be thanked to God that you are pretty because there are billions of people who are not blessed by any of good qualities.and about your character, so that is something you are going to make on your own be confident and dont let the people say bad things of your character.. i only prefer personality ,character and sincerety and these are the things you are known from not by your physical appearance.. GOOD LUCK