(just wondering)
2006-08-09 02:59:24 · 18 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Allow........and sometimes he takes me with! It's just girls dancing naked, which has been around since the dawn of time, no fig leaves there.........wait.......I did see one once, the girl was dressed as jungle Jane and hanging off a pole! But I am the one who got the banana!
These girls are housewives, girlfriends, mothers....they do it for the money and the money is good.
If I have any advice to give those who ***** about it.......have your man take you, then you will know what it is about.......if he goes once in awhile, deal with it, if he goes nightly or tries to hide it.........get a job there, the first time he comes in and sees you up there, it will probably be his last time going!
2006-08-09 03:06:36 · answer #1 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He can go because we have that trust. The benefit is he comes home ready to make love. I know of some spouses that I would not trust, though. It all depends on the level of trust you have. also, he doesn't go that often (maybe once a year or for some event like a batchelor party). If someone's spouse is going a lot, then there is a problem, either financially or emotionally.
2006-08-09 10:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by Motochic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I would allow. If you try to forbid your significant other to do something it will just make them that more anxious to do it; kind of like a child. It really depends on how much you trust them to be faithful while at the strip club. If you don't trust them then going to a strip club should be the least of your problems.
Even you just curious about what goes on at a strip club maybe you should think about joining him sometime.
2006-08-09 10:29:57 · answer #3 · answered by tweetybird3083 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Each person is their own entity and has free will. Outside of outlawing such activities, I can't forbid or allow anything of one person's actions. My s.o. is not a teenager or a child to be managed by allowing or forbidding behavior. If I don't want to deal with someone's behavior I'll just dump him and move out. I have no desire to date someone that needs to be managed like a child.
2006-08-09 10:07:49 · answer #4 · answered by Mosaic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not my spouse's mommy to be allowing or forbidding him to do anything. We are equal partners.
I don't know if he'll ever go to the strip club without me, but that's his choice. So far, everytime he's gone, I've been with him.
2006-08-09 10:03:40 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt say I "forbid" it but he knows that I would not approve. It would be hurtful. If your significant other is going to a strip club then it means he isnt being satisfied at home. Just my opinion.
2006-08-09 10:04:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My spouse would not go on a bet. My lover would, and has. I have no problem with either of them going, just not together. I wish for a lap dance, from both, so maybe they could learn from the pros.
2006-08-09 11:48:13 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not presume I have that much power over my partner to forbid him from something. However I would feel compelled to let him know that I felt going to strip clubs is a form of unfaithfulness to me and a lack of respect for me.
2006-08-09 10:36:30 · answer #8 · answered by the answers are there 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont mind him going. Why should I? Most of the times I go with him, and we have a lot of fun. I dont see anything taboo there?!?
The last time we went, a few of the girls even got me up on stage with them. Talk about fun for hubby! I know what Im doing in my next life!
2006-08-09 10:14:11 · answer #9 · answered by whiskeygrl319 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shat.....allow, of course. The problem would be getting her to actually go with me. Then there are those women that seem to be the ones ASKING their husbands to take them.....some men have all the luck.
2006-08-11 01:37:15 · answer #10 · answered by stringemuphigh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋