Alright - I know we have heard a lot about this topic but what is the normal time for a guy, which considered normal? I am not talking about foreplay... once the d**k is inside, is it 1 minute, 3 minute, 5, 10 15 or what? How soon should be considered premature ejaculation? Please let!
2006-08-09 02:41:43 · 18 answers · asked by J M 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I can hold it for about 3-5 minutes. Not more than that. But i have a long foreplay and my partner(s) never complained. Ideally I would like to go for 15-30 minutes. I am not sure what is normal.
2006-08-09 02:49:15 · update #1
Premature is basically anything that happens before the participants are ready for it to. Make your woman ready and it doesn't matter how long it lasts.
Sexual Response
Reaction to sexual stimulation such as fondling or kissing. Initial responses of females include vaginal lubrication and erection of the nipples. In males, the most obvious response is erection of the penis. Responsiveness is determined by such factors as sexual desire and readiness, environmental circumstances, the skill of the partner, and the use of stimulants.
Sexual-response cycle: The generalized pattern of sexual response as reported by Masters and Johnson, which is applicable not only to heterosexual intercourse, but to homosexual and masturbatory activities as well. The four stages of this cycle are excitement, plateau, orgasm, and resolution.
Sexual-response time: The amount of time required for the average man or woman to reach orgasm. Some studies indicate that a man needs between 2 and 4 minutes to reach orgasm, while despite the general belief that a woman requires more time, some women have been found to reach orgasm in as little as 15 to 30 seconds while the average is less than 4 minutes.
2006-08-09 02:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-03-30 22:56:40 · answer #2 · answered by Callie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bf usually lasts about 10-15 mins. or less if hes really horny! usually does about 15 on foreplay. how old are you? if your pretty young its normal to "come" pretty early. if your not getting any complaints, and during sex is good, and the end result is great- dont worry!! as you get older youll learn to control it more and will last longer. and i dont know now the specific time that premature ejaculation is, but maybe before 5? x hope i helped x
ps also you help you last longer, you could try wearing a metal **** ring, it keeps the blood in or something, or when you feel you going to "come"mtake it out and squeeze the end of your penis not too hard but firm. that should help too!! x
2006-08-09 03:04:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you and or your partner thinks it was too fast, it probably was too fast. Slow down. Stop for a minute before you know the end is near, start again slowly, it actually still feels good without moving. If you still think it's too fast you might start to seriously fantasize about your grandmother, be careful with that one though, it could cause a flacid penis. There are creams available to retard ejaculation, try a porn shop if you feel the need. I used to know a guy who would ejeculate by touching skin, (immediately) now that was premature!
2006-08-09 03:00:13 · answer #4 · answered by Memo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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When a man is suffering from premature ejaculation, he is often climaxing before his partner and in the case of most men it is difficult if not impossible for them to continue intercourse after ejaculating. That’s because chemicals are released when a man ejaculates and these are the same chemicals that make a person feel sleepy and/or not aroused. It’s not that they have suddenly lost interest; just their brain is telling them that the sex is over. This effect is more prominent after intercourse than after masturbation because intercourse actually causes four times more of these chemicals to be released. If premature ejaculation occurs frequently, it can lead to embarrassment for the man and sexual frustration for both partners.
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2014-09-13 09:52:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If we've heard a lot about this topic, then why in the hell are you bringing it up again?
>>>>How long should a normal dick be???? Mine is only twelve inches long... can I get a prescription of some kind of magic dick lengthening pill to make my cute little dick bigger to please the ladies??? And how much come should come out of it? I only shoot about a cup and a half... but my friends brothers uncle knew a guy who said that his neighbors cousins friend once read a bogus story in the national inquirer that said a cup and three quarters is average, and anything less than that is woefully inadequate... I need to know what to eat so I can come at leas a gallon and a half... oh yeah... and while we are at it... is masturbating once every half an hour twelve hours a day enough? Sometimes I can't get a real hard dick after about the twentieth time I jack off in a day, and my poor dick is getting really sore... what should I do? Oh... Oh... Oh... I almost forgot.... how do I measure my own dick to make sure it is really twelve inches? Do I measure it from the tip of my cute little dick to the center of my A-hole? Or do I get my boyfriend measure it for me while I'm jacking off?<<<<
Jesus.... when do these questions stop?
2006-08-09 02:57:56 · answer #6 · answered by Mark 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The Diagnostic Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM IV) defines premature ejaculation as a persistent or recurrent ejaculation with minimal sexual stimulation before, on or shortly after penetration and before a person wishes. Wow, that’s not a sexy definition. Personally, I define it as you come quicker than you or your partner wants. Luckly this is a great solution for premature ejaculation https://tr.im/87cac
2015-01-25 04:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it varies with all men some go for ages some put it in and wham bam its over, u say you have long foreplay try reducing that a bit and when you feel like your going to ejaculate slow down maybe go back to for play for a few minutes then reinsert and go again. try it it could work wonders and if not at least it was fun trying
2006-08-09 03:36:01 · answer #8 · answered by slushlush 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I notice you're counting in minutes...
Ha ha. Define normal.
Some self-control is required - slow down, cool off, change position...
Rememer, sex isn't solely about penetration and how long YOU can last.
2006-08-09 02:48:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your putting too much emphasis on the ejaculation... Bring your girl off first (using your tongue, fingers, toys, drills, edges of books, teddy bears eyes, ski's, cannon balls etc) & she wont care how long you take! Calm down too, your getting over excited.. ask your doctor for some counselling...It helped me!
2006-08-09 02:53:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋