This is the stupidest ever!!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

I know this sounds soo GAY dont think of me as gay, because ill never ever be gay, because i love girls.but does ne1 ever have illusions in their head of themselves being gay with someone, or like say wow what if i WAS gay but even though i truly know im not. even of how disgdsting it sounds, i get these things that go through my head that i want to leave but don't. Im still straight and get horny off girls but i just dont want to think these weird illusion this disgusting way. im the farthest thing away from gay. I actually have a girlfriend and make out with her alot, but its liek i have this cared feeling every time i think of gay. Maybe becasue i make fun of gays all the time, but its like i get scared just thiknig about the word gay. im only like 15. Its sort of like you illsuion bad things like u murdering or dying or having some kind of illness. Its like that. And you start having anxiety about it, because youll never want it to happen to you. What should i do to make it go away

Answer 1

You are confused, that is all, and very natural at 15. Gayness is not primarily about sex at all - it is about love and wanting one particular person to be your partner, just like any other really close relationship. It is in human nature to want to express that kind of love with the most intimacy possible and we were given the ability to enjoy sex in order to strengthen the partnership feelings that are in our nature.

Many people feel that sex was 'invented' purely for procreation. In fact, as some psychologists will tell you, the complicated feelings that surround sex and are due to hormones play a large part in many things in our lives, from the need to be considerate to other people to the urge to succeed in business, sport and life.

So don't be too worried about 'gayness'. It's natural to feel some disgust when you think of the detail but try and understand how all people can have very deep and compelling love for another person, regardless of their sex.

Answer 2

Acceptance is the best course for you. God makes you homosexual or bisexual or straight. It could be worse you could be asexual.

I am bisexual and I would not wish this on anyone. You have to live your life with discrimination from both sides of your desires. Almost all monosexuals be they homosexual or straight will discriminate against bisexuals. Many will deny our existence or tell us that 90% of us are really gay in denial.
The heterosexuals will tell us we are just being deviant and both will tell us we are greedy. What is really silly is that homosexuals know that God made them that way but will say we have chosen to be this. Heterosexuals will always deny that God would make us this way so that will not change. No one but another bisexual would understand what it is like. Fortunately according to most surveys by competent professionals (not biased one way or the other in regards to the existence of bisexuals) find that there is anywhere from 60 to 65% of the population that is bisexual to some degree or other. So guess what you monosexuals you are the deviants not us. We are the majority.

What is hilarious to us is that the sterotype of homosexuality is a very vocal minority that pretends to speak for all of us. The lifestyle they lead is a dangerous one of promiscuity and death.

I am g0y not gay and it is ok to be the way God made you.

Answer 3

Being homosexual is not the worst thing in the world.

Being heterosexual is not the best thing in the world.

You are disgusted because society (your peers) have trained
you to be disgusted - there is no scientific reason for your
disgust.

You actually don't have to know what your sexual preference
is. This is not a quiz that you pass or fail.

I have at least one friend, in her late 20s that still doesn't know.
I guess, since she has dated both, that technically makes her
bi-sexual, but you never know - she may have a revelation
and then decide who's shoes she wants parked under her bed.

If you're homosexual or heterosexual, ultimately, you are what
you are. There's no point in being worked up over it.

I fully expect this answer to be ignored.

Answer 4

Stop worrying. 1st of all, there are alot of thoughts that go through peoples minds. It is up to the individual to act on it or not. You are normal. It is ok to have these types of thoughts. It is up to you on how you are going to act on them. If you are not attracted to guys but think about them. Maybe you are just curious. You are only 15 years old and your hormones are going to mess you up for the next few years or so. I think you may make fun of gay people because you are so scared that you will become one. Therefore, you feel if you make fun of one you cannot possibily be gay. Remember, whatever makes you happy as a person is who you are. You could like both sexes. (Bisexual). I think the best way to find out what your sexual preferance is, is to in the privacy of your own room look at male and females. See what turns you on. Do not be ashamed of whatever does. Accept it. By accepting what you like, will allow you to accept yourself regardless if your gay , straight or bi. Just remember you are normal. Everyone has fantasies and it is up to you on how you act on them. You are only 15 years old, and trust me your not the only (straight) boy thinking those thoughts.

Answer 5

Well, let me tell you the truth about this:

Everybody is gay. BUT, we're all gay to a certain extend. Some people are flat out gay, while others are less gay and pretty much interested in women AS A WHOLE.

But I think that Ron White puts it best. Here's a clip of his comedy show.

You may have to wait a little bit to download, but watch for Minute 11 with 40 seconds.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=D3X16WbcXkM

Answer 6

Are you serious? Just don't be so scared of it... who cares? You are what you are.

But I will tell you that the fact you make fun of gays shows a definite weakness in your personality. You don't have enough self-confidence so you bring others down. Let people live their life in their own way and maybe then you won't be so scared of being judged yourself.

Answer 7

You need to talk to a counselor, not post stuff on yahoo answers to deal with these feelings. It could be anything from lingering guilt over your gay jokes, to idle curiousity based upon the news and events around us. It could also be fears over heterosexual performance and abilities, or genuine latent homosexual tendencies, but yahoo answers is not the place to find out. Seriosuly, talk to a counselor or therapist about this.

Answer 8

Your gay. Im sorry. Its not that bad. Just cause you make-out with girls dosnt make you striaght.

If you want to make it go away, go get a boyfriend. And then life is good. I have a lot of gay friends , and it took them a while to come out. They dated girls and had sex with girls but they were gay. And they came out. And everyone accepted them. Thats what you have to do.

Answer 9

Dude, don't think you are Gay at all. Don't worry about it. Your body is flowing with hormones as you go through puberty right now. Just be sure to keep your thoughts to a minimum. Although it is hard to stop thinking about guys like Justin Timberlake...he is dreamy :)

Answer 10

Not to worry, it is part of growing sexually. You probably have seen a lot of gay critticism and therefore fear it might happen to you (the whole thing). Don't worry about it, go with what you feel is right, the mind can play immense tricks on one.