Cheatin question again ! ! !?

Question

y do ppl resort to cheat??? y dont they just b honest w/ der partner an com right out?? jus say " honey im sorry but im really attracted to that person an i wanna sleep w/ dat person"

Answer 1

if u can understand and allow that,
i love you wanna be married to you.
i am on my knees.....plz accept it.

Answer 2

Cheating isn't always planned out beforehand. Sometimes, you just connect with somebody, and in a moment of weakness, you go too far. Then again, the saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" is true, so chances are the person that is being cheated on knew before getting into the relationship that this person was a cheater. I know someone who was sleeping with a married guy, he finally left his wife and was living with her, and then she was actually shocked when she found out he was cheating on her too.

Answer 3

I've never cheated, and don't believe in it, but i would guess because that person either got bored or something and wanted something new. key word..wanted. Humans crave sex. It's human nature. No matter how much you crave it, you still crave it. If this is a personal experience, then I would say let him/her go, it's not worth it. The more a relationship is still going, the harder it's going to get when the time comes for you...or him to call it off, and if you knew something like this was going to happen, your just giong to beat yourself up over it....i know this didn't help but i hope it did in a small way.

Answer 4

well cuz they like the one thier with but cant resist others.they dont want to lose u but they want to sleep around 2.they know if they r honest they will lose u and they dont want that.so cheating secretly is the best answer and then go to u when finished.no guy will ever say hey i want to bone this chick.they cheat and hope u never find out.i know i was like that but im been true and all cuz of one girl.so u can change 2.good luck

Answer 5

What are you kidding? You actually think someone would say that to their partner? You must be young and not able to understand relationships. Their are an infinite number of reasons why that won't work. I don't even think I need to explain any.

Answer 6

This is a very hard to answer question..
look at it this way, if the person tells you.."Hey look I slept with someone"

Would you be able to accept the fact and forgive him?

Or tell a lie? and pretend nothing happens and life still goes on..

It depends on individuals i guess.

just my 1cent worth

Answer 7

Cheaters cheat because they can......we allow this behavior by either participating or ignoring........If people would just be upfront with there true feelings it would be less murders and cars getting messed up by jilted lovers............LOL I am in a similiar situation, I was really into this guy and I wanted to believe him and his situation but he was a liar and a cheater.....and I chose to ignore his behavior and hope he would get better but he didn't, I changed my behavior......its hard not talking to him and not being able to see him.......it better each day.......hopefully this helps alittle....

Answer 8

I think the type of people you hang around think you are stupid

look at the way you write you don't appear to be overly intelligent and I bet I can get just about anything over you.

Answer 9

I hate, hate, hate cheaters. But I know that if I ever told my husband that I thought that someone esle was attractive, he would freak out - he is so jealous. There is no way I would ever even think about cheating on him.

Answer 10

Because they seem to think they have the best of both worlds by cheating...but in reality they are ruining all that is around them.

Answer 11

Cos the other person has feelings we dont want to hurt.
Best to keep it quiet, out of sight, out of mind.