2006-08-09 01:48:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Hmm, make sure that you really are first and decide what you are going to do, with or without the ex. Go to the Dr. or gyno and please start taking some vitamens, stop smoking/drinking and take care of yourself. Then, if you feel that you must, tell him. Men like to be warned of such things. Plan ahead and think of his reaction before you just blurt it out. Say, I've got something to tell you, don't freak out cuz you might think it's bad. Can you please meet me at____ so we can talk? Etc. The important thing now is the baby and its health. You are now responsible for a life. Scary but good, if you can handle it.
2006-08-09 02:02:16 · answer #1 · answered by bookluffer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better let sleeping dogs lie. Dont upset things. If he's your physical ex, let him also be your moral ex.Live the current life.
Otherwise, old memories will haunt you. Like a joke here:
A woman, who had a child outside of wedlock, was told by court to be paid monthly child welfare expense by the man, until the child reached 18. On the 18th birthday when the kid went to collect the monthly cheque, the man said " You are 18.This is the last payment.And tell your mom that I am no longer your father" to which the kid said"Thanks for the money. Mother told me to tell you that YOU NEVER WERE"
2006-08-09 08:58:25 · answer #2 · answered by stoneman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is be honest. There is no need to feel guilty or stressed because of this. I tell you, it feels 100 times better the moment you do. He knows what the consequences are if you don't use protection. Don't feel bad, pick up all the courage you have and do it, as you have nothing to lose and maybe a supportive person for your child to gain. Do it over the phone, it is a whole lot easier.
2006-08-09 08:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to go over to his house and tell him that you need to talk to him tell him that you have to tell him some make sure that he is sitting down before you tell him . ask him how he feels about kids first then ask him what would you do if someone was pregnant with your baby .if he say that he doesn't care you tell that you are pregnant with his baby and that you will see him in court for child support .....
2006-08-09 09:28:54 · answer #4 · answered by ~ Passionategirl_31 ~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depens what kind of realtionship u have with ur ex now and the reasons why u broke up if u still talk or not if you can actully sit down and talk to him face to face do that. thats heaps better otherwise give him a call or if ur brake up was really bad and u don't even talk to him anymore txt him haha
2006-08-09 08:56:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a right to know. I'd say face-to-face is the best way to tell him. And, be ready to accept whatever his reaction is-good or bad.
Either way, he's just as responsible for this as you are.
2006-08-09 09:01:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it his? Then why should you? Unless that is the reason the two of you split. Even still why bother. If you feel you must, then just call him up. If he's ugly about it, just hang up. This is your time to be happy regardless of what he thinks!!!!
2006-08-09 09:12:27 · answer #7 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him over the phone if you are afraid of him.
Get it out of the way. Whatever you do dont have an abortion because later on in life you will regret it.
2006-08-09 08:54:54 · answer #8 · answered by elainefromlondon 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Face to face (you can tell him over the phone, but I think face to face is much better).
2006-08-09 08:53:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello ex, i have some news for you
might want to get out your checkbook
2006-08-09 08:52:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋