but your parents hate him and his brother is threatening to bash you if u go near him and i am 12 and his brother has been doing this tom me since i was 6 so what do i do thanks ps i really love him and his brother said that the guy i like hates me but he doesnt i dont think and he always was mean to me (the guy i like ) but now he is nice to me
2006-08-09 01:21:06 · 6 answers · asked by mel-sparky-13 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no not my brother his brother
2006-08-09 01:29:50 · update #1
Oh, so that's how your story goes. I did had crush not love on a boy. He was a cute, hotty boy. I had this when I was 7. But as I grew older, I seem to have realized that my studies are more important than a stupid crush. So the point is, study well and make your parents happy. Then when u turn 21, then u look 4 a man that is suitable 4 u. Break a Leg.
Yamunah........
2006-08-09 01:29:35 · answer #1 · answered by ErC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as you grow and change so do the people around you, well most of them will it seems this guys brother is one of those who may never change.
the love you feel is a real feeling, there is no doubt about that, but it is also just a feeling. Feelings change as we grow and develop and you may well find in a year or two you will have outgrown the feelings of love for this boy. Be patient with yourself and with life.
You say you are 12 now and lots of people will say "Oh you are still such a babe in the woods, don't go hurrying off with anyone." you will probably think these people don't understand that your feelings are real. that isn't necessarily true. they may understand all too well. afterall every adult you ever meet used to be 12 at sometime and can look bak at how they felt then and what they wanted, needed and knew then and now sees things so very differently.
rule number one for life.
Keep yourself safe and well!
If you are being threatened talk to adults about this and tell them that you don't feel safe. Don't put yourself in a position where you will be hurt or harmed.
2006-08-09 15:56:06 · answer #2 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let your family control you. I'm 12 too but my parents don't want me dating but I still do it. They're not the ones dating, you are. Tell your parents about the threats from your brother & they'll most likely stop it.
2006-08-09 08:25:27 · answer #3 · answered by Steve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girlie,u have to be sure of what u really want.u see the kind of rejection u have been getting?first from your parents then the guy's brother.ask yourself,does he love you the way you love him or close to it?if he does then he should be ready to help you work it out.you guys talk to ur parents and his brother,it might help.
2006-08-09 08:30:25 · answer #4 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, keep Your head clear, don't be fooled or taken advantage of. Can you answer this question "What prompt his change of attitude". Life is precious and You have it ahead of you.
2006-08-09 08:31:41 · answer #5 · answered by leoninestein 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away frm him it's just an infatuation dear.
2006-08-09 08:24:24 · answer #6 · answered by kuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋