he says if he cheated on me, i wouldn't know about it. i would like to prove him wrong.
2006-08-09 00:58:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
HIre a PI
2006-08-09 09:21:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
all men are different. My first husband, got all jumpy and nervous when he was lieing. Though he stuck to his guns that he was innocent, and tried to make me believe I was being paranoid, I still knew better. Some years later after being divorce (still friends) he admitted and apologized to me for cheating he said every time I accused him I was right, and then he asked how I knew.
Some guys I've talked to say that they tend to accuse their spouse when they themselves are actually guilty.
Some are really good and you can't tell.
But trust me if his story doesn't quite jive with his normal routine of things or some tiny little detail (or to many details) seems askew its probably BS. But be careful about accusations...they may be planning a big surprise party or special gift for you instead of cheating.
2006-08-09 08:11:13 · answer #2 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep checking mobile phone call logs and messages and also the phone bills for anything out of the ordinary also keep a vigil over the computer it shows up lots of stuff u can also buy software that checks all the keystrokes on the keyboard so u can see everything hes writing on messenger or emails
2006-08-09 08:06:35 · answer #3 · answered by sacamento3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you want him to cheat just so that you can prove him wrong?...Sounds like you have a bigger problem. Try trusting him and not worrying if he is or not...guys always mess up...if he is you'll know.
2006-08-09 08:11:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY????? If you go around looking for a problem you will surely find it. It sounds to me like there is definitely a problem with jealousy, lack of commitment and trust in your relationship. Save your gas and time because he is right...people only get caught that do not really care anymore if it happens.
2006-08-09 08:08:58 · answer #5 · answered by jodie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't know if it's a one time thing, but if he starts seeing someone regularly, your intuition will tell you, and you have to listen.
2006-08-09 08:07:23 · answer #6 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't - if they're doing the dirty on you then its their own stupidity that will cause them to be found out....
no point checking their stuff as it will often lead to further problems down the line...
2006-08-09 08:22:36 · answer #7 · answered by total_2k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look for the signs girl, wierd calls( not wanting to talk around you), him always wanting to go out... without you, him smeeling diffrent
2006-08-09 08:07:46 · answer #8 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its too bad if your questioning that.....Good Luck--
2006-08-09 08:06:36 · answer #9 · answered by outback 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him outright if he is or is not.
2006-08-09 08:03:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋