I took some friends out for my birthday.I always try to be "cool" with them,and I paid drinks in one caffe,but in another I gave money to friend because he ordered drinks.It was dark so I didn't see how much money did I gave him.It wasn't enough so he had to add his money,and I didn't know.This morning I saw that I have more money than there should be,and I called him,and he said that he told me,but that I didn't hear,or whatever,and that he gave his money.Now I don't know if I should give him money to make things better,or I'm going to look even more stupid if I do that.HELP!!!
2006-08-09 00:28:09 · 12 answers · asked by alextheleader 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Give him the money..... we all make mistakes..if he's a real friend it will be cool. If he won't take the money. When you go out again pay for his. It's not a big deal if you don't make it one. So Eat Drink be Merry. Enjoy life and especially your friends.
2006-08-09 00:37:05 · answer #1 · answered by mygreensilhouette 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I actually think that giving him the money would be (while probably right and fitting for accountants) a little ummm trivial in the context of a friendship.
Take him out for coffee or a drink or dinner or something and pay for him. Do the FRIEND thing, not nit-pick about money.
:)
2006-08-09 07:53:09 · answer #2 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah give him back the money,, and tell him that you didn't understand what he was asking for. Its a mistake,, and if he's a friend he will understand.. But not giving him the money, would be wrong as well, unless he is being dis-honest..which I don't know.
2006-08-09 07:33:18 · answer #3 · answered by ۞ JønaŦhan ۞ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always ask your "friend" if he is in trouble now because he had to pay part of his drink. If he says yes give him the money he had to pay.
Besides, I don't understand how come you pay when it is your birthday? Usually it is the opposite.
Having to pay for your friends is not cool, especially when they should celebrate your anniversary.
2006-08-09 07:34:59 · answer #4 · answered by Jolia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bt not making things worse, you make things better. Why not give him a small treat during the week end. It will help and to me it is a better idea.
2006-08-09 07:34:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you wouldnt look stupid just ask him if he wants you to give him the money back people do that all the time
2006-08-09 07:33:03 · answer #6 · answered by Neil G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First try and write a question that makes sense.
2006-08-09 07:39:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time you guys go out, buy him a drink, if he stays angry he's an asshole.
2006-08-09 08:11:46 · answer #8 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act COOL abt the whole situation...
2006-08-09 07:31:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say you're sorry and give him the money
2006-08-09 07:32:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋