I have recently begun to explore my bi side and have noticed i really get excited by lingerie both wearing it and seeing others wearing it, is this what you would call a fetish i always thought it was kind off a bloke thing.
2006-08-09 00:12:10 · 24 answers · asked by sister 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
a naked woman does NOTHING for me, but scantily clad in sexy undies and a nice bra, raaaaaaaaarrr
pretty normal...always felt that way, wouldnt call it a fetish
2006-08-09 00:32:07 · answer #1 · answered by littlestarr02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting thought - before I changed gender wearing female lingerie (as a man) was considered a fetish - now I am legally female it's considered normal. Basically it is acceptable for women to wear all manner of clothing normally that would be considered fstish if a man wore it - so the determiniation of what is and is not fetish is purely a product of language and culture.
My suggestion is, if it turns you on be as adventurous as you can possibly be and enjoy - who cares what people call it.
2006-08-09 00:31:53 · answer #2 · answered by Richelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sister,
Think of it as a fetish if u want to but that doesn't have to be a negative thing. It only really becomes a problem if it starts to take over your sex life and u find u can't get turned on without it.
Just be glad that it's something that's so easy to accommodate and that's so socially acceptable. It could be a lot worse - u could have a fetish for licking ferrets or something!!
I doubt you'll have much trouble finding people to model for you, most people are exhibitionists at heart.
I hope u can stop worrying about this & start to enjoy it as just another part of what makes you who you are.
2006-08-09 09:53:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES IT IS OKAY TO HAVE A FETISH PERSONALLY I THINK THAT EVERYONE HAS SOME SORT OF FETISH YOU JUST HAPPEN TO HAVE AN AVERAGE FETISH THAT LOTS OF PEOPLE HAVE I HAVE A FEW FETISHES TO LIKE I LIKE SEEING A CUT GUY IN A WIFE BEATER OR THE FACT I AM ATTRACTED TO TO ASIAN WOMEN THAT HAS A DECENT FACE I DON'T KNOW WHY I LIKE THAT BUT EVERY TIME I SEE SOMEONE THAT IN AN EXAMPLE OF MY FETISHES THEN I JUST MELT AND BLUSH AND FREAK OUT SO DON'T WORRY ABOUT KNOWING EXACTLY WHAT YOU LIKE IF WHETHER IT IS A FETISH OR NOT JUST DON'T GET OVER OBSESSIVE ABOUT THE LINGERIE THING
2006-08-09 01:06:12 · answer #4 · answered by Lithia O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those garments are designed to look and feel sexy. It's not a fetish at all really. I like unshaven lady parts which although the standard a few decades ago is almost cfertainly a fetish in the western world nowerdays.
2006-08-09 12:00:29 · answer #5 · answered by monkeymanelvis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol, what a thing to worry about darling. its a pretty sound "fetish" as fetishes go. you're harming nobody, so just enjoy it pet.
i still get hot under the collar when am looking at the womens lingerie section in my catalouges. even the mere suggestion...ooh la la! so no, its not a bloke thing, just a sexual thing. its arl hunky dory, nothing to be ashamed of, sister.
peace n love swot xxxxx
2006-08-09 11:38:41 · answer #6 · answered by swot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't consider it a fetish.. It can be such a turn on to see a woman in her lingerie- but even if you had a fetish, like being dominated, it is not a problem. do what makes you happy and be well
2006-08-09 10:07:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is hardly an exploration into your bi side. It is simply a fetish that you and thousands of other women and men share.
2006-08-09 00:20:34 · answer #8 · answered by Nosey parker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attractive things will turn you on, whatever it is that you find attractive. Yes lingerie is a fetish, but because it's "normal" to find it a turn-on it's not seen as one, unlike say.....rubber or PVC. A lot of things are fetish that you wouldn't believe, some because they are "normal" and some because they are "wacky"!
2006-08-09 11:14:48 · answer #9 · answered by shq_foxyfaerie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good work babe. A fetish is something that gets u sexually aroused. the more aroused u r the more u and whoever else u f uck will enjoy sex. I have many fetishes myself sweetie. I like womens butts a lot. I like to be rough with girls. I love group sex. I like to sex many females at once. I like it when a woman chokes me hard. i like public sex.
My friend(a girl) loves to watch sex of any (almost) kind. She wants to watch me have sex with other women. She is not strange or weird at all. If u met her u would love her.
2006-08-09 00:19:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say normal.
I always believed women have more sexual fetishes than men, usually we get very fulfilled with a normal loving caring woman, and lots of sex with her, no need for kinky stuff
2006-08-09 00:18:53 · answer #11 · answered by Splishy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋