I am wondering if it is too good to be true? My fiance and I are so happy right now, I've been married one other time and it was nothing like this. Could we be too happy?
2006-08-08 23:24:03 · 6 answers · asked by barbara_taylor17 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Like so many of us in your shoes, we start to analyze anything that DOESN'T have problems. We start expecting the bad part to come along, looking for the flaws.
Of course it's nothing like your previous marriage! Are you going to have bad times with your new spouse? Of course.......we all have them, and it's part of a normal relationship. There's no need for you to sit there and wonder when they'll happen or of they will eventually make one or both of you miserable.
Here's all you need to know: You are starting off on the right foot. You have a second chance. You have experience, you know what you DON'T want and you know what NOT to do.....right? When hard times come along......whether you and your spouse simply have a disagreement, or you have a major disaster hit your life.......the key here is that THIS time you know that you both will work through it. You know it may come, you plan for it, you won't run from it, and you know that hard time will PASS. SO if it comes, don't' be afraid that all will end. Just look at it as a bump in the road. Always work at the relationship, and try (both of you) to make the efforts that you are making right now.....so that you will both remain happy and excited in this relationship.
2006-08-09 00:05:42 · answer #1 · answered by paintgirl 4 · 9⤊ 3⤋
Stop.
History is not destiny.
You are happy now. Revel in it. Don't look for reasons to doubt your good fortune.
Enjoy your happiness and best wishes.
2006-08-09 06:36:08 · answer #2 · answered by Angela 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be glad your happy... sounds like you need to stop comparing your past relations to the now... go on... be happy... sounds like the 2 of you are really into each other! :OP
2006-08-09 06:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by nknicolek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's wrong with being too happy? enjoy it till the last drop.
2006-08-09 06:39:12 · answer #4 · answered by roel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be
2006-08-09 06:37:17 · answer #5 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah that must be it
2006-08-09 06:38:35 · answer #6 · answered by TOPKICK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋