2006-08-08 23:06:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I started dating this guy recently and my closest friend who knew when the guy started asking me out has been making really indecent passes at him whenever we go out together. I am feeling really miserable because as a close friend i expect some loyalty from her and to know when not to cross the line plus she is really gorgeous to look. I feel the guy is not doing enough to discourage her (com'on he is a guy). Should i ditch her or both of them? Help!
2006-08-08 23:28:51 · update #1
I think I would talk to him and ask what his feelings are. If he is not interested in your friend then tell her to back off. If he is interested in her, then get rid of both of them!
2006-08-16 19:31:09 · answer #1 · answered by Lady D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know if she was really your so called friend she wouldn't be doing that because a friend doesn't do that. Also who cares if he is a guy if he told you he was loyal he is supposed to know when to put a stop on to your friend the way i see it is that he enjoys it i think you should blow them both off. You deserve a better boyfriend.
2006-08-15 11:36:47 · answer #2 · answered by chabelita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as you said, she is your closest friend so you cant just cut her off.
I think, first you should explain her the situation well(like; if you continue like this...)
if she is your best friend than she ought to understant and respect!
Secondly, i have a question for you, Why are you taking her too. I mean, while you r with your Boyfriend, what to share something with her at the same time?
2006-08-16 22:00:41 · answer #3 · answered by ferhat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is sweet.Just tell her all the juicy details.And make sure that guy is at your feet.She is not being a friend to you,can't find a single reason why should you be a friend for her.Be realistic,nice to others means cruel to yourself
2006-08-16 19:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by Janet Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel and see what her problem is. Ask her if she cares about being your friend. Because the way you see it is she doesn't care very much about your feelings. Either that or she can't help but to be a slut.
2006-08-16 00:09:06 · answer #5 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to cut that friend off that person is not a true friend !!! friendship is a part of Trust and without trust there is nothing at all!!!!!!!! This friend can cause you major problems in the near future !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-15 09:19:31 · answer #6 · answered by SUNNYt123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this girl is not your friend my dear. and for that matter your boyfriend doen't sound like a keeper either. for your own best interest kick these losers ( the tramp and your so called man) to the curb and move on to bigger and more mature people.
good luck
2006-08-16 13:43:47 · answer #7 · answered by katinalln 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl---at a time like this we have to ask ourselves---what would i be able to live with in the longrun---is she a friend you can do without or is he a guy you can do without...life is tough but make sure whatever you decide...dont let it get the best of you
2006-08-16 03:54:52 · answer #8 · answered by mzredd878 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she does nto sound like a very good friend to me. friends do not do these kinds of things to each other. i think you should dump both of them and find new friends who will give you the respect you deserve.
2006-08-16 21:10:21 · answer #9 · answered by manyhartz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him in the balls.
If woman make out with her and the tree of you will have a kick.
2006-08-16 20:14:09 · answer #10 · answered by alberto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋