I haven't had any... relationships before. My best friend recently lost her virginity, and she also gave the guy oral sex. What I want to know is, if this was her first time, how did she know how? Will I know how when my time comes? I am a complete novice in this department, frankly embarrassed to be asking this question, but I have no other way to find out. Please help, keep your language clean...
Thank-you.
2006-08-08 22:38:28 · 35 answers · asked by Rox 4 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Its one of them things that come naturally to you, the guy will give you loads of hints on what to do as well.
Because everyones diffrent and like diffrent things it will be diffrent for you with each guy you are with.
just remember a few things when you are giving oral,
1) teeth are a bad thing when you have the guys penis in your mouth, use your lips and just because its called a "********", doesnt mean that you actually blow! you suck it and use you tounge.
2) be aware that the penis will produce "pre c*m" so be prepared for the taste and remember that when a guy has an orgasm, a lot of semen will come out so be ready to either spit or swallow.
3) use your hand to masterbate the penis and stroke his ballsack, it will make him c*m faster.
Its really simple ad with practice you will get better.
If you have any more questions please feel free to contact me on my e-mail address.
2006-08-09 03:33:51 · answer #1 · answered by matdevine21 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It should just come to you naturally. Just make sure that the first guy is the right guy. Don't just do it because your friends have. Remember that it is as important, if not more so, that you enjoy the whole experience. If you are not happy with anything, it could be the wrong guy, so stop and wait till you find someone youreally love or are at least more comfortable with. As I have said on here before, a girl has a lot more to lose than a boy, but the boys don't appreciate that until much later. Whatever you do, don't rush into anything and when you finally take the plunge, be careful and be safe. That way you should both be hapy.
2006-08-08 23:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by geminipetelondon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let me tell you something Sex is nice.But just because your friend got lade doesn't mean you should.Men and women have hormones,and when boy,girls git around 12-14 there hormones kick in and when your around 16-18 thy are tarring you up.Most boys from 14-35 there little head trays to make all the decisions and the big head is there to keep the ears from touching. Try to keep your self under control,young men will try to tell you that sex is the best way you can show your love.Believe me that after the little head is empty then for a short time the big head is engage and this is when he will let you know how he fills and most of the time its not good.After about a hour then the little head will start to take over.Then he is going to be cool and nice hoping he can *** unload Agni.You don't need the boys going around tilling there so call friends how good you were that night, because that just make the other boys wont you to.Go to the TV and find the discover channel and fined sharks frenzy.This reminds me of boys,thy think if old Joe can git her I can,and the boys start coming around and you will see them fight to see owl gits you next.You don't need this be leave me. Your friend lookout4me57
2006-08-09 00:32:05 · answer #3 · answered by lookout4me57 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some website where there are free porn clips which I think after you see you will know the basic of oral sex.
Sex is a natural thing which means once you and a guy are engage in sex, all these kissing and licking of each other just happen. Doing oral sex is as easy as licking an ice-cream. But to masturbate for a guy you will need to try an error. Some guys like it fast and some like it slow. Some like you to grip their dick tighter and some like it loose. Dun worry sex is something you will enjoy if you really love that man .
2006-08-08 23:47:46 · answer #4 · answered by noodles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope that you're friend truely loved the guy that she lost her virginity to. I didn't, and I was young. I would take it back if I could... -because now being w/ the man I'm going to marry someday, looking back, I would give anything if I could have lost my virginity to him. When the time comes, you'll know. You'll feel that there's no one in this world you'd rather give that part of you to, and you know he feels the same way. Where this wouldn't be just a casual thing; you'd want to spend the rest of your days with that one person and you know you wouldn't regret it later. You'll know when that time comes. -but if it comes any sooner, please know that you always can say no, and don't let ANYone pressure you into doing anything that you're not 100% comfortable with doing. It's alright to feel nervous, but if you feel even just a little bit that you don't think you want to be in that situation, you can say no. Chances are you would have regretted doing it anyway. Plus, you can talk to your friend, and ask her how she knew it was the right time for her. I hope this helped a little. Take care!
2006-08-08 22:54:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing in the world is to level with the guy. Tell him that it is your first time and ask him what he would like for you to do. This can actually be fun and exciting for everybody involved. Like anything else, you will gain skill with experience.
If you are still really unsure, there are a number of books available on this topic at any..er...adult bookstore :)
Good luck and remember: Sex is about intamacy and fun. Enjoy your inexperience and take it as an opportunity to explore, not as a life or death situation that you HAVE to get right the first time.
2006-08-08 22:45:45 · answer #6 · answered by EMT Geoffrey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are considering having sex for the first time then please make sure you do it with somebody worthy of you. This isn't anything to do with religion or long term relationships, it's about self respect and confidence.
If you choose a great guy and explain the situation then there will be no pressure and you can take it one step at a time. You should never do anything you feel uncomfortable with.
Great sex is about being switched on to your partners reactions to your stimulation and him being switched on to you. If you take time to explore one an-others bodies before penetrative sex you will be much more at ease and will understand what sex is about.
2006-08-09 03:36:33 · answer #7 · answered by CC...x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex itself is pretty straight forward and you will know what to do at the time. It's up to the individual how they like it. As for oral sex, only do it if you are happy with doing it. Lick and suck and listen out for the noises he makes when you do certain things that will tell you if he likes it or not. If he's not vocal then ask what he likes. Guys love telling you what to do.
And remember be safe.
2006-08-08 22:54:56 · answer #8 · answered by Lilac Lady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please don't worry, and don't be tempted to have sex just for the sake of it with the wrong person.
Many of my friends had sexual experiences at a very young age, and most of them later regretted. Most didn't get much from it, and in a few cases it actually put them off.
If you wait until you are with the right man everything will just come naturally to you. I didn't have sex until I was 19, and only then because it felt right with him. Also you only do what you are comfortable with. If you don't want to experiment with oral sex at first (even if it's never) then don't. Again, wait until it feels as if you want to. Don't do it because you think it's expected of you!!
2006-08-08 22:53:57 · answer #9 · answered by Copper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some things come natural- like making out. many people think they [mainly girls] can't or won't do it right. but if you go with the flow it should be fine. its ok don't feel embarrassed about your question. its better to be enlightened than stay clueless :) i am not over 18 but i am pretty experianced [ don't get me wrong i'm not a whore] but i know some sites that could help you on the whole 'sex' and intimate thing
IM me at tape_luvn_kid
if you need further advice :)
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2006-08-08 22:45:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋