I like a guy, but I need to understand his non verbal signs to help me make a move.
Thanks
2006-08-08 22:33:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
The second look is the key.
Most people that are accepting of you will face you, their arms will be in an open position. When a person isn't interested, they tend to talk away from you and talk to you with their arms in a closed position. The stance is related to their comfort zone. We create invisible circles around us. The more you are open to a person, the closer within the circles that person is allowed. As for the setting of the hands. It is a primal instinct to protect yourself. Watch some people as they eat. Most will sit up right and have one hand in their lap as they eat. However, some will place their hands on either side of their plate. This is to protect their food. The less comfortable they are the more their hands and arms will surround their plate. This is also true when you are talking to someone. If their arms are closed, they probably aren't really listening. It means that they aren't open to what you have to say.They have closed their self off to you.
But, the question is how do you know if the person is attracted to you?
When someone is attracted to you, as you part they will always take a second look at you while you are parting. This is an action that is usually related to the beginning of a relationship. As both of you become secure in your relationship, this action will dwindle away. However, the behavior is very prominent in the beginning.
2006-08-09 01:27:37 · answer #1 · answered by gejepsen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a person is attracted to you their pupils dilate while they look at you (which is why in older times women would put Belladonna in their eyes to make this happen unnaturally) also he will mirror your actions. If you put your hand on the table he will put his hand on the table, etc. There are very many interesting web sites, but the one sure fire way to tell if a person is attracted is to watch if their eyes dilate.
2006-08-09 18:44:14 · answer #2 · answered by shellybellycocoapuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-08 22:38:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could do that but the outcome is not reliable.
A guy will need to tell you in person, in unambiguous language his intentions. Everything else is speculation.
2006-08-09 20:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by flugelberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a smack on the back if he is vibrating then he needs you If you are vibrating then you need him
Actually I dont know. But what the fuss go and talk to him but pls dont allow him to take advantage of you.
2006-08-08 22:50:30 · answer #5 · answered by Loviingly_Yours 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he faces you when he talks to you then he has interest.... if not he likely doesn't. Best wishes
2006-08-08 22:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by colorist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋