i'm still in love with an old girlfriend?

Question

i'm still in love with my ex girlfriend, i wished it never ended. Now i'm married going on 2 years and cant still get her out of my head. It was love at first sight with my ex, and she's gorgeous. I'm almost desperate to call her but she's also married and has 2 kids now also.... Should i just put a bullett in my head and save the heartaches for everyone..

Answer 1

You need to forget about your ex and start thinking about your family.
She also has a husband and a family of her own.
Do you really want to cause her alot of unnecessary pain by stirring up **** between her and her husband?

If you were still in love with your ex then you had no business marrying your present wife. You have cheated her out of true love and commitment.

and you need to remember............EX'S ARE EX'S FOR A REASON..........stop and think about your past relationship and why yall split up in the first place.

Answer 2

No you should not put a bullet in your head, there will always be that one person out there in your past that you loved in a different way that you ever loved anyone, and you will never forget there image. With time it will fade away. If it was meant to be you would still be together. But now you have a wife, who loves you very much. She is married with two children, and chances are what made her so beautiful is from the glow of love and children and family, from the life she is living now. Just let it go, and get on with your life, if you keep dwelling on the past then you will have no future, or alive.

Answer 3

Remember the Alamo.

Have you ever seen the movie "The Graduate"? Dustin Hoffman starred in it and when he knew that Elaine was the onoy girl for him he raced to the alter where she was getting married and ran off with her and that was the end of the movie. Your girl friend got married already so its a little late for that.
I will say this, why if you feel that strongly about her did you ever get married is beyond me. You don't wait till the last minute and decide "Oh, I changed my mind IU want my ex". it doean;t work that way. Your gonna struggle with it now!

Answer 4

My first question is why did you break up? Also what is wrong with your wife is she not attractive enough to keep your mind focused or what the sex better with the other women.

Of course most people would say leave the thought alone and focus on what you have now. I would say find out why you're not thinking about your wife consistently and try to fix that hopefully these thoughts will disappear, I think something is missing in your marriage.

Answer 5

Hey I am the most open minded person here, but in all honesty, you have to move on you are now married and she is married with children so you have to keep in mind if anything happens between the two of you that would hurt the children involved, but hey maybe you can send her a Christmas card, birthday card, etc.. for the next 18 years....who....knows right...... your wife deserves your love now.....100% of it.... sorry.... I know that is not what you wanted to hear....

Answer 6

You should call her... or forget her completely.

I called my true love and we both realized that we missed out on the best love of our lives. We are dealing with the pure hell that comes from disrupting our families (especially children). These things have a life of their own...


Think about this before you call... imagining the possible scenarios

* If you call and she tells you that she thinks of you everyday and you truly do love each other... what then?

* She may not remember you at all... or vaguely and how would you feel about that

* She may remember you and be nostalgic about the past but very happy in her current state.

Good luck.. proceed with caution

Answer 7

Why in the world did you marry your wife then...if you were in love with another? I'm afraid it's a little too late now. Need we remind you that your married and so it she. Unfortunately, sometimes we need to live with our decisions, right or wrong. The way I look at it is....you have already made your choice. It's up to you to find a way to live with the reality of it all.

Answer 8

nope, you will still break your wife's heart if you do that. why not try to forget your ex. i think you are not really trying hard that's why she is still on your mind. or maybe if you don't have kids yet its time to have them. children bring joy to a marriage. you and your ex are not meant for each other, she has her own family now and she might even be happy. why don't you do the same. save your marriage and build your own family. it's not the end of the world. behind the clouds the sun still shines....

Answer 9

Sometimes we think that we are in love,but it can be just attachment.
It is opposite because u can't forget her and she is in your head,but maybe not in your heart!
Man,she is married and has 2 children and many problems at home with hers husband,that's why she has just no time for nostalgia about u..
It is disgusting too,but u must find new girlfriend and have a new live!
p.s just keep on funkin!Good luck!

Answer 10

FORGET ABOUT HER !!! Remember your vows to your true wife. Marriage can't be enter in lightly because god takes vows VERY SERIOUSLY so we should also. Eventually you need to face the hard fact you're both married and move on with your lifetime right wife who God gave you to have for your WHOLE lifetime. You are looking for a way out from your marriage & your lifetime commitment to your true wife. Don't be a coward & a quiter by jumping off the ship. It seens the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence .......... THAT IS ONE BIG FAT LIE ............... the real truth is the other side of the fence is ALWAYS brown !!! Spend your whole life with your ordained wife. BE THANKFUL FOR WHAT GOD HAS GIVING YOU .... YOUR ORDAINED LIFETIME WIFE !!!