im desperatly in love with my ex boyfriend.we broke up over a year ago cos he didnt think i was mature enough, but ive changed and i still feel the same way about him. he told me he still likes me and when we are together theres deffinitly something there.
weve never had sex but i know when we do itll be amazing!
i dont know how to tell him i feel this way?
2006-08-08 22:06:19 · 14 answers · asked by tattoosbug 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
can i add were both 21
2006-08-08 22:15:27 · update #1
Just let him know. When i read this i thought you were my ex. Seems so familiar.
Anyhow, just tellhim how you feel and feed off his reaction.
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2006-08-08 22:11:05 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. An'zer U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let whatever happens happen, I wouldn't force or make anything happen. If he likes you he will see how amazing you are and sex will just complicate things. Unlike men girls have a way of changing themselves in order to be or get a person they want. In this instance he already knows you and you haven't had sex so rather than worrying about him flip the situation and be his friend. Who know it might turn into something amazing. Do not change or be something you are not because eventually the real you will come out and if thats the person he broke up with then maybe it is his lost. KNOW WHAT I MEAN.
2006-08-08 22:17:10 · answer #2 · answered by Dare2BReal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard one believe that you meet some one for a reason then move on. Does he feel the same way. If you dont ask ....you will never know.
Invite him round for a meal...put a nice dress on, make an effort. When he gets there have a couple of glasses of wine and chat...take time over meal do not force anythinjg...then as you both relax you will come closer...if not you then know..
2006-08-08 22:17:15 · answer #3 · answered by tezz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to put it back in your pants for one second and really sit down and discuss things with him.
You broke up for a reason, you must be sure that whatever it was that caused him to think he wasn't mature enough is dealt with and in the past before you go opening yourself up to more potential hurt.
It's clear you haven't talked to him about this yet because if it had been properly discussed then you wouldn't be here feeling apprehensive about talking to him would you?
Plan a time when you can get together somewhere nice and discuss everything, try to keep it all rational and constructive before you go leaping into bed with him again, or you may just end up doing something that you really regret!
good luck
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2006-08-08 22:15:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a break, he having come together with you, fully accepting that you are mature now; you can straight away tell him that there is definitely something between you both and having a sex between you both will be amazing and you like it to happen, sooner-the-better way.
2006-08-08 22:12:56 · answer #5 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say exactly what you've just written. Be yourself and just tell him how you feel. Its all you can do and hope for the best. Good luck with this toots
2006-08-08 22:25:44 · answer #6 · answered by toots 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be brave and tell him straight out - its the only way to go - if you cant face saying it face to face - write it down or text him - but dont let it drag on as you'll drive yourself crazy
Good luck
2006-08-09 02:44:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want him, and I think thats what you are trying to tell him. Then its really simple get him alone and take advantage of him. I think he will get the hint by the time your naked.
Good luck!
-NmD!
2006-08-08 22:12:02 · answer #8 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well say everything you just said above... send him an email explaining or a letter.. that way you will say everything you want to... then its up to him...
2006-08-08 22:12:09 · answer #9 · answered by dirtyminx82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you both speak the same language?
2006-08-12 11:15:40 · answer #10 · answered by Noadonis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋