Is it ok to ask my best friend of 3 yrs who i use to date, to be friends with benefits even after he told me that he loved me and i told him i don't want a relationship with him.
2006-08-08 22:00:29 · 17 answers · asked by OnE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Truth is i do love him it's just i'm 17 and he's almost 21. I'm afraid to confess...
2006-08-08 22:05:23 · update #1
He would move the world for me and i would do the same.....
2006-08-08 22:07:46 · update #2
You girls fall in love to easy and have no idea what your really doing. You haven;t even got out in the real world yet. My advice is get this love nonsense out of your head and worry about moving College.
2006-08-16 10:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you all should be together if you love each other!! When will you be 18? That whole friends with benefits doesn't work out. Someone will always want more than that, and someone will get hurt.
2006-08-09 17:16:29 · answer #2 · answered by Diamonds_4Ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you, but you dont love him then don't be friends with benefits because that will hurt him so much. If you have no feeling for him, then just let him go.
2006-08-09 05:06:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't play with his heart. let him know from the get go that you want nothing more than a booty call.There will be a problem though,if he loves you........when you are done with him......where does that leave him?he will have these feelings,and to see that you don't will hurt, being around you he will love but then when u blow him off cause you met someone else......not good.just make sure...............YOU BOTH AGREE.if he can't don't.if you can't dont just be careful and if u can then have fun and go for it girl!
2006-08-16 16:01:21 · answer #4 · answered by 2good4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be thrilled to have a man like that.
i have lived with my best friend for 10 years. its the best relationship that i ever had. i know that you are young, and i wish you the best.
why not let the relationship take its time and see what happens.
2006-08-16 22:13:30 · answer #5 · answered by lodeemae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not okay because there are too many feelings involved. If you want to be with him then be with him. Don't play games you will be the only one hurt in the end
2006-08-17 01:37:31 · answer #6 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could go to jail....you're a minor....he could get caught up...you're still young...there's more things to life than sex...focus on college and being a smart beautiful young lady.
2006-08-16 18:27:00 · answer #7 · answered by D.E.O.N. Sphinxxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are pretty close in age - I don't really see a problem with being with him if you really feel that way.
2006-08-16 15:23:12 · answer #8 · answered by M S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think so, as long as you make it clear to him that it can be nothing more and he is okay with it. layout all of the details of the "relationship" before you take that step.
2006-08-09 05:06:01 · answer #9 · answered by acidpluto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. its wrong being friends with benifits and even worse if u like the person. tell him u like him, thats all.
2006-08-15 23:28:00 · answer #10 · answered by Rebecca Forever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋